Get All FFF'd Up to Be Fit

OK, before you go all holier than thou critical, or laugh so hard you can’t pay attention to this content of this article, here’s what being “All FFF’d Up” means when it comes to the secret sauce of being fit. It means if you are going to stick to a fitness program, you need to have Fun, include Friends and be Focused. C’mon, what’d you think I meant? Besides, I like it better than Conviction, Commitment and Consistent. Three C’s or three F’s? See what I mean?

You see, there are “lumpers and splitters” in this world when it comes to science. There are those that dissect the tiniest of tiny and separate out every imaginable strand of information, and then there are those who see links and broad connections in life and bring things together. 

When I searched Google under the heading of “fitness,” about 4,270,000 hits came back in .65 seconds. The term “exercise” brought back 2,200,000,000 hits in only .73 seconds. “Fitness motivation” in just .72 seconds brought back 345,000,000 hits. You wonder why you are so confused about fitness? You wonder if there really can be so many different approaches, bits of data and information, and studies to direct you to your best fitness?

Let me bit a “lumper” here for you and make it easy and understandable. You need to be all “FFF’d up” to get and stay fit. When you summarize these millions of hits on Google, which of course I haven’t, but when you have spent years digesting and contributing to many of these types of articles as I have, you will find the simple truth: getting all FFF’d up will propel your fitness. 

Developing and maintaining agility, coordination, endurance, balance, and strength, hallmarks of fitness, depends largely on internal motivation. What are the components of the most successful, commonly relied upon, and most frequently referenced internal motivation tool kit for exercise?

Fun Hate to jog? Then dance. Don’t like to dance? Dive into the pool. Notice I didn’t say join a gym? Most Americans fully believe that exercise improves their lives, but only 18-20% join gyms. That means you can turn your mindset away from reps, sets, miles and instead turn to the fun you had as a child. Remember how active you were? So today find fun, enjoyable activities that have cardiovascular and resistance components such as walking, weight lifting, biking, gymnastics, pogo sticking, freestyle dance, tennis, handball, recreational track and field, playing catch, flag football, yoga/pilates, etc. Get the idea? As long as you are having fun you’ll keep doing it. Play brings joy, it’s the oxygen of adult life, so give yourself permission to play and be physically active daily, for an hour or so and you’ll do more for your longevity than you can imagine.

Friends Research tells us that those who engage in physical activity generally enjoy it more when they do it with others, rather than alone, thereby increasing motivation. When you exercise with others, research has found, it can decrease feelings of fatigue, increase your energy and promote a more intense workout for longer periods of time. The sense of having accountability to another helps ensure that you’ll show up as planned. And working out with another or a group helps build your self-confidence (“If she can do it, I can too”), and get through more difficult and strenuous exercise. This is one of the reasons that apps are so popular—there’s a strong social element that allows you to share your experience with others.

Focus Not only does exercise and physical activity increase your short term focus for two to three hours after you exercise, but going into exercise with a sharp focus on your goals, and a focus on how you’ll reach them, will promote more exercise. Your self-perception, the beliefs you have about yourself and exercise, your specific/measureable/attainable/realistic/time-bound, SMART, plans, and the specific action plan you have to exercise all comprise your focus. But why just be SMART? Why not understand that real focus requires us to SMARTEN UP?

We all know what SMART goals are, but those are for yesterday’s thinkers—been there, done that. Tomorrow’s exercisers, the peerless wonders that everyone admires, know that SMART goals are not enough.  

That’s where these four added characteristics of staggering goal-setting practices and achievements become necessary:

ENTHUSIASTIC - how enthusiastic are you about your fitness goals? Are you spilling over with infectious excitement?

NATURAL – are your fitness goals a natural next step for you, or are these goals someone else’s you are trying to emulate? If these goals are yours, you won’t be able to live without accomplishing them.

UNDERSTOOD –If you understand the reasons behind your  goals, you will be better able to drive towards them. Ever ask someone to drive somewhere without making sure they know the address?

PREPARED – have you insured you are properly prepared to drive towards these goals?

Now can you see why focus is necessary to achieve, well, anything worthwhile including fitness? Don’t THINK you have the time? Focus on creating a plan to prioritize exercise. THINK you look too out of shape and others will gossip about you if you show up at an exercise class? Focus on your own goals and not on comparing yourself to others. THINK you don’t have motivation? Focus on organizing yourself to be more habitual -- hire a pre-paid trainer, sleep in your workout clothes, donate a sizeable sum of money to a charity you hate if you fail to work out one day that you planned to, and meditate seeing yourself finish a workout using a mantra you focus on daily.

There you have it. Millions and millions of articles that come down to “get FFF’d up.” Not bad, right? And think of all that time and confusion I’ve saved you reading all of those, not to mention the time away from exercise it’d take. Now, go out, have some fun with friends and stay focused. You’ll live healthier, longer, with far more joy.