Generosity’s Benefits Are No Myth (but There is a Myth to Illustrate How Generosity Benefits Us)

Generosity’s Benefits Are No Myth (but There is a Myth to Illustrate How Generosity Benefits Us)

Over the years, I’ve come to understand the incredible financial benefits of generosity. Generosity improves our health, increases joy, lowers stress levels, and can also increase financial benefits. So much so that practicing generosity is something I advise people to do regularly, even when they tell me they have very little to offer.

However, I’m frequently asked, ‘Spencer, how can you tell people to be generous when they don’t have much to give?’

There’s a valid point embedded in this question - those who don't have much money will have limitations on how much they can share with others.?

My response, though, is simple - it’s the act of generosity that creates the conditions for growing wealth, and it doesn’t have to be a monetary offering. You can be generous with your time, resources, and quality of attention.

The Greeks became aware of this centuries ago, and illustrated the principle through a myth called Zeus’s Test.?


The Power of Generosity?

Once upon a time, two strangers wandered into a village, asking the local inhabitants for shelter.

While nearly every door they knocked on turned them away, an elderly couple called Baucis and Philemon welcomed them into their home.

Even though Baucis and Philemon's house was small and they didn’t have much food, they scrambled together what little they had.

Their dining table was wobbly, but they made sure it was supported with a small wooden block, and they rubbed the surface with mint so that it smelled fresh for their guests.

Baucis and Philemon cooked vegetables and cut meat from a shank so they could feed their guests for the night, and offered what was left of their sweet wine.

Soon, the old couple turned what little they had into a great feast.

However, privately, Baucis and Philemon worried they wouldn’t have enough left over for themselves.

But as they watched their guests dine, Baucis and Philemon noticed something strange - the wine from the clay jar they drank from never ran out.

The elderly couple realized these were no ordinary strangers. They were gods in disguise.

Not knowing which gods they were, Baucis and Philemon grew fearful that their offerings were insufficient, so they started to chase after the goose that guarded their home for extra food.

But when they were too tired to catch the goose, Baucis and Philemon expected the gods to punish them.

However, the Gods revealed themselves to be two of the most powerful figures in Greek mythology - Zeus and his son, Hermes - and they praised Baucis and Philemon for being generous and hospitable to strangers, which in ancient Greece was known as Xenia.?

?

Importance of Xenia in Ancient Greece

For the Greeks, Xenia was a way of life. Hospitality towards foreigners and guests was a moral obligation, a way of demonstrating virtue. The Greeks incorporated Xenia into their customs and manners, and it became a standard practice throughout the culture.

They believed that having a generous spirit was good for everyone, that it facilitated positive relationships (especially with those from other cultures), and encouraged more generous acts in kind.

?

Financial Benefits of Generous Acts

That said, the Greek Gods believed in punishing those who did not practice Xenia, so Zeus and Hermes sent a massive flood into the village that damaged all the homes except for Baucis and Philemon’s, which they turned into a beautiful temple, where Baucis and Philemon lived happily for the rest of their days.

The myth teaches when too many people act from a place of selfishness and fear, the entire community will often experience suffering, but also that those who do practice generosity can still individually reap the rewards.

?

The Generous Spirit

One thing I find so interesting about Zeus’s Test is that, despite being able to prepare a feast for their guests, Baucis and Philemon still felt a constant sense of inadequacy.

They worried they didn’t have enough and that they hadn’t done enough, but ultimately, this fear was unfounded because Zeus and Hermes weren’t interested in the size of Baucis and Philemon’s feast; They were only interested in their spirit of generosity.

Like Baucis and Philemon, we all feel a sense of inadequacy when it comes to what we have. However, it’s how we put what we have to use for others that have the potential to reap the greatest rewards.

Generosity is one of the best ways to create a healthy economy, and one of the few wealth-building tools with the power to benefit everyone.

This is why I encourage everyone to be generous with whatever resources they have. It doesn’t just have to be money. It can be time, attention, wisdom, creativity, etc. One of my favorite meditation teachers says that whenever he has a generous impulse or thought, he takes action. This has served him for years. What if you do an experiment and take this on, starting today?? Listen to yourself for thoughts of generosity and take action.

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Spencer Sherman, MBA, CFP?的更多文章

  • How to Unlock Your Financial Potential

    How to Unlock Your Financial Potential

    For years, I’ve said that money is the one area of our lives that can be easy and relatively simple. So why do we find…

  • Your Feelings About Money Could Be Shrinking Your Wallet

    Your Feelings About Money Could Be Shrinking Your Wallet

    Have you ever felt badly after making a purchase or an investment you wish you hadn't? Ever scolded yourself for losing…

  • Want to Improve Your Relationship? Talk Money!

    Want to Improve Your Relationship? Talk Money!

    Anyone who’s ever been in a long-term relationship knows that money can be one of the biggest sources of tension (and…

  • How Purpose Ignites Success

    How Purpose Ignites Success

    Ever said “I can’t or won’t do ___” and then something turned it around? I can’t write a book, I won’t join a health…

  • What if rest wasn't a luxury, but strategy???

    What if rest wasn't a luxury, but strategy???

    When was the last time you felt truly clear-headed? I'm talking about that rare state where insights flow effortlessly,…

    2 条评论
  • Finding Serenity in a Noisy World

    Finding Serenity in a Noisy World

    Not long ago, I returned from a silent meditation retreat in the wilderness. It was so remote that we had to walk 9…

    1 条评论
  • The Unexpected Power Of Patience

    The Unexpected Power Of Patience

    Ever felt like your life has a constant chorus of "What's next?" I know I have. I have to plan my next trip.

    1 条评论
  • Simplify to Amplify

    Simplify to Amplify

    Do you have financial and/or work goals for 2025? Wouldn’t it be great if you achieved all of them? I am usually filled…

    1 条评论
  • 3 Surprising Ways Self-Compassion Can Lead to More Financial Success

    3 Surprising Ways Self-Compassion Can Lead to More Financial Success

    Do you judge yourself for how much you earn or have accumulated so far? What about for a past purchase or investment…

  • Transforming Holiday Tensions Into Opportunities for Growth

    Transforming Holiday Tensions Into Opportunities for Growth

    For many of us, spending time with family is not always a holiday (in the British sense of the word). If you’re feeling…

    1 条评论

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了