The Gap and The Gain
Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re never where you want to be?
That’s called living in the Gap—measuring yourself against an unreached goal instead of seeing how far you’ve come.
Instead, let’s shift to the Gain.
The Gap Thinking: “I still have 15 lbs to lose.”
The Gain Thinking: “I’ve already lost 5 lbs and feel stronger than before!”
The Gap Thinking: “I missed two workouts this week.”
The Gain Thinking: “I worked out three times this week—more than I used to!”
The Gap Thinking: “I still struggle with nutrition.”
The Gain Thinking: “I’m making better choices more often, and that’s progress.”
How to Use This Today
-Write down three wins from your journey this year so far—big or small.
-Celebrate the progress you’ve already made.
-Shift your focus: Measure backward, not just forward.
When you focus on the Gain, you’ll feel more motivated, more confident, and ready to keep going.?
What’s one win you’re proud of today? Hit reply and tell me—I’d love to celebrate with you!
Let's go make it an awesome day,
-Joe
Helping you redefine success & design what's next | Mid-career Coach | Speaker | Writer | Former Creative Director
12 小时前We gotta celebrate the wins Joe!