Game Theorists in Neverland: Unraveling Peter Pan and Sun Tzu's Strategies in My Life
Abhinav Paul
Let's be a Collaborator. Project Manager | Multidomain Innovator | Technology Ethics Enthusiast | Strategic Problem Solver | AI & Cognitive Science Explorer
Staying hungry creates time, so stay hungry. In a short-sighted world, having a vision will make you a fool, so be foolish.
"Stay hungry, stay foolish" - Steve Jobs
Let me share my personal journey with you. When I first heard Steve Jobs' words, I didn't fully grasp their meaning. It wasn't until I decided to chase my dreams and embarked on a life-changing journey to Berlin six years ago that their significance truly hit me. It was a pivotal moment, stepping into the unknown and leaving my comfort zone behind.
You might wonder, "How can I stay committed to my dreams amidst life's challenges?" That's where I tapped into a powerful combination of strategies, including lessons from Game theory.
Burning bridges for living on the Death ground
What will a cat do when you come near to it? It will run away. Until one day it doesn't have an escape route. The cat will fight back. That is what the militaries do; they burn bridges to get a commitment for the fight. Sun Tzu argues to provide an escape route to break down the motivation of enemies. By burning the bridges, I committed myself to fighting for my dreams. Taking up the challenges provides me with the energy.
Between Scylla and Charybdis. Between the devil and the deep blue sea, the only way to stay alive is through the fight. By fighting the hell out of it, that is what I do every day. That is what I am. That means not going back even for a single day back to home acted as motivational tool.
Embracing Discomfort - Thank God she doesn't say yes
I was Peter Pan and took time to say "I love you" to Wendy. Wendy was my first love. She just wanted to settle, so she settled for the first thing that comes by. At that time, I was sad and cried. One day, I watched "Sleepless in Seattle" .
I realized, "I don't want someone anyone settles for. Marriage is hard enough to bring such a low expectation to it."
Being Peter Pan and Quest for the Neverland
Peter Pan's rejection of adulthood propels him into a thrilling and adventurous life filled with escapades in Neverland. Liberated from adult responsibilities, he soars through the skies, battles pirates, and befriends magical beings like Tinker Bell and the Lost Boys. Peter's refusal to grow up fuels his boundless imagination and audacious spirit, allowing him to explore uncharted territories, dance with mermaids, and confront the notorious Captain Hook. His eternal youth enables him to remain curious and fearless, embracing every moment with childlike wonder. Through his escapades, Peter reminds us of the importance of cherishing the joy and freedom of childhood while discovering the enchantment of a life unrestrained by age's limitations. Peter's refusal to grow up reminds us to cherish the magic of childhood and embrace our limitless imagination.
Why should we lower our expectations when we can soar high like Peter Pan in Neverland?
What can you learn from a child?
Let me answer this in the words of the Master:
"A child can always teach an adult three things: to be happy for no reason, to always be busy with something, and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires. It was because of that boy that I returned to Akbar." - Paulo Coelho, The Fifth Mountain
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It's a lesson I carry close to my heart and a reminder to return to the essence of life.
It is just a matter of time - on being an Ugly Duckling
Once an outcast, the ugly duckling endured the passing of time, facing rejection and loneliness. However, as seasons changed, so did he. Slowly, he metamorphosed, shedding his awkwardness and gaining elegance. With each passing day, he honed his grace and strength, transforming into a stunning swan. Embracing his newfound beauty, he found acceptance among the elegant swans on the shimmering lake. Time became his ally, healing wounds and revealing his true self. The ugly duckling's journey reminds us that time can be a powerful force, shaping us into our most beautiful and authentic selves, allowing us to embrace our uniqueness and find our place in the world.
Let your Hunger Guide you towards Greatness
If you are a lion, What you will eat?
In the spirit of Aesop's tales, we encounter the lion who befriends mice. This seemingly illogical act demonstrates the value of strategic thinking and the importance of being hungry for the right things. Just as the lion chose to eat the antelope rather than expend excessive energy on catching mice, we must identify our true hunger and direct our efforts towards achieving our most significant goals.
So, if you find yourself hungering for more in life, just like the lion, let your hunger guide you towards greatness.
Believing in Alice
I believe in Alice because she tells me to believe in three impossible things before breakfast. She also tells me that Jabberwocky (dragons) can be killed.?
So, believe in Alice and the magic of impossible things. Allow yourself to dream beyond the boundaries of reality, for it is in the realm of dreams that innovation and extraordinary achievements are born. Refuse to settle for mediocrity; instead, seize the opportunity to chase your dreams, even if it seems as impossible as defeating Jabberwocky.
Embrace your inner Ugly Duckling, your Peter Pan spirit, and your belief in the impossible. Stay hungry like a wolf, eagerly climbing the hill of opportunities that life presents, and stay foolish like a visionary, because therein lies the key to unlocking your fullest potential and finding your true place in this world.
Say with me
I am the Ugly Duckling.
I am Peter Pan.
I believe in Alice.
Staying hungry like a wolf climbing up the hill.
Staying foolish like a visionary.