The Game of Telephone

The Game of Telephone

Do you remember the old game of telephone? It was a childhood favorite where a group of friends would sit in a circle, and one person would whisper a phrase into their neighbor's ear. The phrase would be passed along, whispered from one person to the next until it reached the last player. Inevitably, the final message was hilariously different from the original. What started as "The cat sat on the mat" could end up as "The bat flew with a hat," demonstrating how easily communication can get distorted as it travels through multiple channels.

In the realm of small business leadership, the game of telephone serves as a perfect metaphor for the challenges leaders face. Miscommunication can occur just as quickly, whether it's a casual remark taken out of context,Leadership or an instruction misunderstood. Like in the game, each person's interpretation can skew the message, leading to confusion and misaligned expectations. This can result in inconsistencies, such as varying enforcement of rules or differing standards of accountability. Just as the final phrase in telephone is often far from the original, a leader's intention can be lost in translation, causing friction and uncertainty within the team. Leaders must navigate these challenges, ensuring clarity and consistency to maintain trust and cohesion.


Leadership Skills Needed:

  • Consistency: The ability to apply rules and standards uniformly across all situations.
  • Clear Communication: The skill of expressing ideas and expectations in an understandable and unambiguous manner.
  • Empathy: The capacity to understand and share the feelings of others, fostering a supportive work environment.
  • Conflict Resolution: The ability to address and resolve disputes or disagreements in a constructive manner.
  • Adaptability: The skill to adjust strategies and approaches in response to changing circumstances or needs.
  • Transparency: The practice of being open and honest in communication, fostering trust within the team.
  • Active Listening: The ability to fully concentrate, understand, and respond thoughtfully to what others are saying.
  • Accountability: The responsibility of being answerable for one's actions and decisions.
  • Decision-Making: The capability to make informed and timely decisions, often under pressure.
  • Leadership Presence: The quality of inspiring confidence and respect through one's demeanor and actions.


Questions for Clarity

  1. Do misunderstandings often arise from unclear communication within your business?
  2. Have you faced situations where leniency led to unintended consequences?
  3. Are you clear and explicit in your communication with your team?
  4. Have you found it difficult to rebuild trust after a breakdown in accountability?
  5. Do you find it challenging to maintain consistent standards in your team?


Is this an area that you or your team could improve on?

If so, our Lions Guide Academy?Podcast?with Keith "Flip" Griffin featuring Laura Colbert.?In this podcast, we explore the critical aspects of accountability in leadership. They discuss common pain points such as inconsistent enforcement of rules, the discomfort of crucial conversations, and the balance between flexibility and maintaining standards. The hosts share practical insights and strategies to navigate these challenges effectively. They emphasize the importance of clear communication, empathy, and continuous skill development. This episode offers valuable takeaways for leaders and small business owners aiming to foster a culture of accountability and trust.



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