Funk or funky?
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Funk or funky?

This week's been a bit heavy. I've been down in the funk, quite aware of it - every day making a small effort to make my life a bit more funky.

What puzzles me is when a lot of my close friends are going through something similar at the exact same time... Some might say there's some planetary influence, others might say we are the sum of the closest people surrounding us.

What I believe to be most important though, is to find a way to get out of your funk.

This week I took my time. I sat with my funk. I wanted to know what she had to say - and she had a few messages for me, things I really need to look at. So here's what I have noticed over the years - and thanks to the (not so) funky messages:

  • Every time I'm about to level up big time, there's a funk happening before. It's a sign of self sabotage. For me I now turn it into those 3 questions: 1) How much do I really want this? 2) What is the price of not moving forward with my plans? 3) What is my next step to get there?
  • Allow yourself to sit with your funk and listen to the messages! I learned to listen to the messages before taking the next step: getting out of that state!
  • Music. I cannot stress enough about how much MUSIC can change your state instantly - it brings you out of your funk and into a funky groove - in the matter of a split second! When I was driving to the station before, one of my favourite songs came on: The Bear Necessities :) (you're welcome!) Don't you think this is exactly how the title was supposed to be spelled? My mood was lifted, volume cranked up, swinging and singing along... #yay
  • Turn to Mother Nature. She's always got you. It's incredible how much support she can offer. Even if you just stand barefoot in the grass for just a couple of minutes. Then put your hands on your heart and take one deep breath in. Or dance like nobody's watching...

Keep it simple. What I shared above is nothing new - yet maybe you needed the reminder, just like I did (yes, I am listening while I'm writing). What's the next step?

Right now I'm on my way to the city, to sit in my favourite café (the MCA at Circular Quay), and work from there today. Why not change your scenery, when you're down in the funk - it's actually quite simple to boost your mood.

Here's a picture from my train ride, just to lift yours:

George's River

What are you doing today to put a smile on your face? We all need it - and it's contagious, so let's do this together!! Feel free to send me a message or comment below, it would be so inspiring to myself and others.

Sending you a BIG SMILE today.

With Love

Marie x


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Siria Thomas

Swim School Operator

7 个月

Great message Marie, we all have days like that & these are good reminders of some simple remedies, thank you for sharing ??…. Animals are also a cure for me - their pure spirits help to lift mine every time xx

Gretchen Norling Holmes, PhD

Bestselling Author / Podcast Host of "The Work in Between” / 3x Cancer Survivor / Named Top 100 Successful Women to Know in 2022 by Gulf Coast Woman Magazine / Motivational & Keynote Speaker

7 个月

Love this, Marie. Going after what we are confident we want comes with uncertainty, even if it's a step in a positive direction (especially if it is). For me, it's fear. The fear isn't whether or or not I can do it, the fear comes from whether others will respond, whether it will resonate with them, whether they will find it valuable. I know what some of your new goals are and sometimes I think we do self-sabotage but I find when that happens, it's coming from a place of fear and uncertainty. None of it's insurmountable and you've no doubt done harder things, but maybe it's a survival instinct? I don't know but I sure understand what you're saying. Music is my best therapy, too. That, and changing my surroundings. Working in a coffee shop is where I do my best, most creative work. Wishing you a day filled with joy, progress, and possibilities!!

will W.

--Transformational Speaker- Priest- Sports- Tech

7 个月

The Affordable Loss Principle- is the philosophical way of questioning oneself as to what will i lose compared to what is gained. When shifts come this is usually a part of that decision, subtle at times so one may not even notice they are being challenged.... You will choose wisely i'm sure...

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