From Struggle to Strength: Shredding the Mask of Perfection

Let’s be honest; we’re all afraid to show our true selves! We’re afraid of being judged, perceived as not good enough, and failing!

In my upcoming book, "Claws Out, Thriving in a World That Wants You Tamed," I share a deeply personal story that changed my life and career. Today, I want to give you a glimpse into that journey and how it led me to develop the concept of the "Strategic Roar."

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The Mask of Perfection

Early in my career, I was driven by an insatiable desire to prove myself. I believed that if I worked harder than everyone else, took on more responsibilities, and never said no, I would finally be seen as worthy. I competed fiercely with my colleagues, obsessed over results, and let my work become my life. On the surface, I was a top performer. But inside, I was crumbling.

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The High Cost of Success

My single-minded pursuit of success came at a high cost. Promotions were elusive; recognition was scarce, and growing resentment and overwhelm consumed me. My health suffered as I gained weight, lost sleep, and withdrew from my social life. I was caught in a negative spiral, convinced that nothing was working and that everyone was against me. Yet, I refused to give up.

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The Turning Point

It took a serious accident to make me stop and think about my life. I was so obsessed with proving my worth to others that I had lost touch with my own values and desires. I had lost touch with the people who meant the most to me: my husband, my kids, and myself!

At this pivotal moment, I began to make different choices:

1. I stopped being the "yes" girl for everything.
2. I rekindled my passion for dancing, using it as a way to release tension and reconnect with myself.
3. I prioritized self-care, focusing on my eating habits and overall well-being.
4. I invested in personal growth, enrolling in courses and immersing myself in books.

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The Birth of the Strategic Roar

Something remarkable happened as I embarked on this journey of self-discovery and authenticity. The recognition I had long desired finally came, but by then, I had achieved something far more valuable: a sense of self-worth and balance that no external validation could provide.

I discovered that the less I sought approval from others, the more I received it. As I worked on accepting myself, others began to notice and value my contributions more. My authentic voice – what I now call my "Strategic Roar" – emerged not from being the loudest but from being true to myself and my values.

This journey taught me that true power comes not from conforming to others' expectations but from embracing our authentic selves. It's about communicating with clarity, confidence, and purpose – not to dominate, but to create meaningful impact.

The Ripple Effect

My personal transformation had a profound impact on both my professional and personal life. My relationships deepened, my career flourished, and I found a sense of fulfillment that had eluded me for years. But the most powerful realization was this: by embracing my authentic self and using my Strategic Roar, I wasn't just changing my life – I was creating ripples that inspired and empowered others around me.

Your Journey Begins Now

I share this story as a personal anecdote and an invitation. An invitation for you to examine your own life and ask:

• Are you wearing a mask of perfection that's suffocating your true self?
• Are you chasing a version of success that doesn't align with your values?
• What would your life and career look like if you embraced your authentic power?

In "Claws Out," I provide the tools and strategies to help you answer these questions and embark on your journey of authentic empowerment. I believe that when we unleash our true selves and let our claws out, we not only thrive personally but also create a ripple effect that can change our workplaces, our communities, and, ultimately, the world.

I'd love to hear your thoughts. Have you experienced similar struggles in your career? What does authentic power mean to you? Share your reflections in the comments below.

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Love. Penelope

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P.S. Exciting News! My new book, "Claws Out, Thriving in a World That Wants You Tamed," is officially launching on Amazon on September 3rd! ??

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