From Self-Improvement to Self-Giving: How Shifting My Mindset Transformed My Life and Business

For years, I immersed myself in motivational books, self-help seminars, and every self-improvement activity you could think of. I was constantly on the hunt for ways to better myself, seeking to extract as much value as I could from the universe. But despite all this effort, something was missing.

About a year ago, I experienced a pivotal shift in my mindset. Instead of asking, "What can I GET from the universe?" I started asking, "What can I GIVE?" This simple yet profound change in perspective marked the beginning of an incredible transformation in my life.

The Power of Giving

When I began focusing on what I could offer to others—whether in my personal relationships, my community, or my business—something remarkable happened. My relationships deepened and became more authentic. I found myself experiencing consistent joy and fulfilment, not because I was receiving more, but because I was giving more.

And perhaps most surprising of all, my business began to thrive in ways I never expected. It wasn’t the primary goal, but it seemed to flourish almost as a side effect of this new approach. The more I gave, the more abundance seemed to flow back to me, effortlessly.

A Transformative Influence

A significant influence in this journey has been the late, great Wayne W. Dyer and his book "The Power of Intention." While some might find its concepts a bit mystical, I can personally attest to its life-changing impact. It’s by far the best book I’ve encountered in this genre, and it has helped me understand the incredible power of intention when it comes to giving.

The Irony of Happiness

Here’s the irony: by becoming far less self-obsessed, I’ve actually found far greater happiness. My life isn’t just about what I can achieve for myself anymore; it’s about how I can contribute to the world around me. And in that contribution, I’ve discovered a deeper sense of purpose and joy than I ever thought possible.

If you’re on your own self-improvement journey, I encourage you to try shifting your focus. Instead of asking what the universe can give you, start asking what you can give to others. You might just find that in giving, you receive far more than you ever imagined.