"From Refugee to the American Dream: A Journey of Resilience, Gratitude, and Opportunity"

I was born and raised in Luanda, Angola, to Portuguese parents. At the time, Angola was a Portuguese colony, gaining independence on April 25, 1974. My father worked as a government employee, and our family lived modestly. However, we were rich in strong family values, a steadfast work ethic, and the support of a close-knit community of like-minded friends and neighbors.

When Angola achieved independence in 1974, our lives changed dramatically. As Portuguese citizens in a newly independent nation, we suddenly found ourselves unwelcome. My family had no choice but to flee to Portugal, bringing only what we could carry. Overnight, we became refugees. I was just 16 years old, leaving behind my childhood home, my friends, and the only life I had ever known.

Arriving in Portugal, I held onto hope that the land of my parents and ancestors would embrace us. Instead, I encountered the harsh reality of a country undergoing a socialist revolution. People arriving from the former colonies were labeled as "retornados" (returnees) and often faced prejudice and discrimination. We were treated as outsiders in a place that should have felt like home.

Despite the challenges, we persevered. Life began anew: a new school, new friends, and a new way of living. Although I felt displaced and unwelcome, I considered myself fortunate compared to those who had perished in Angola or been separated from their families. At least we were together and safe.

In 1975, while navigating the difficulties of a new life in Portugal, an unexpected opportunity arose: I was offered the chance to pursue a university education in the United States. The prospect was both exciting and daunting. I did not speak English and feared facing yet another upheaval, my third in just two years. Still, a deep inner conviction, combined with my father's admiration for America, spurred me forward.

I arrived in New York in the summer of 1975, bound for Connecticut. Everything was unfamiliar: the language, the culture, the architecture, the weather, and the people. Yet, I felt a profound sense of hope. This was a chance for a fresh start, an opportunity to build a new life in "the land of freedom and opportunity." I was determined to succeed and to give my all to this new chapter.

Looking back 49 years later, I can say the challenges I faced were immense, perhaps even greater than I had imagined. Yet, the rewards far exceeded my expectations. America welcomed me with open arms, offering opportunities I could only dream of. The promise of freedom and possibility was real, affirmed every day, every month, and every year I have lived here.

In today’s environment, I have sadly absorbed many of the negative myths about America, particularly among younger generations born in this country. These perceptions often overlook the unique opportunities this nation offers.

Having lived on three different continents and traveled to over 40 countries across the globe, I can confidently say that, while no country is without its challenges, America remains unparalleled in the opportunities it provides. Every day, I meet people and read stories of individuals who, like me, are living the American Dream. Through these encounters, I’ve realized that their journeys often mirror mine—marked by struggles yet brimming with possibilities.

"A dream is an opportunity waiting to be realized, but unless you do whatever it takes to make it a reality, it will remain only a dream." Carlos Cardoso

Let me offer you my humble but most relevant key highlights that led me to the realization of my American Dream:

• Let go of the past. The past is history—it can either hold you back or propel you to new heights. I chose the latter.
• Do not victimize yourself or let circumstances or others victimize you. I chose not to.
• Be self-reliant, empower yourself, and develop a can-do attitude. You have the power to do it! I chose my path and did not rely on society or others to do it for me.
• Hard work and commitment pay off. I worked extremely hard and transformed myself many times over and over!
• Learn from everyone and from any situation you encounter. I am a lifelong learner.
• Treat others with respect and the way you wish to be treated. I did and continue to do it!
• Thank, appreciate, and recognize everyone who has played an important role in your development and your life. I do and need to do more.
• Recognize all the opportunities people provided for you along the way and reciprocate to others. I have but need to do more!

Above all, I learned this crucial truth: Let go of the past and move forward with purpose. These principles guided me in my journey and enabled me to achieve the American Dream. I hope they can inspire you to pursue your dreams as well.

"Like any dream, the American Dream must be seized and turned into reality. In America, it's available to anyone—but you have to do whatever it takes to make it happen." Carlos Cardoso

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Carlos M Cardoso, a first-generation immigrant and steadfast believer in the American dream, rose from humble beginnings to become the Chairman, President, and CEO of a Fortune 1000 company. His impressive career also includes serving as a board member for multiple Fortune 500 companies.