From Perfectionist to Productive: Tips for Overcoming the Need for 100%

Are you someone who always strives for perfection in every aspect of your life?

Do you find yourself spending endless hours perfecting every detail, only to feel drained and unfulfilled at the end of the day?

If so, you're not alone. Many of us fall into the trap of perfectionism, believing that everything we do must be flawless.

But here's the truth: perfectionism can actually hold us back from being truly productive and happy. It's based on irrational fears. Amazing what our mind can make up!

Now I know how much perfectionism can suck out of you in terms of time, energy, and attention. Sometimes, it can even lead those you work with to take advantage of you. You know what they say, "Want something done? Give it to a busy person."

It's time to shift our mindset from perfectionism to productivity.

Here are some practical tips to help you overcome the need for 100% in every task and start living a more fulfilling life:

1. Identify what truly matters: Take a step back and identify the tasks that truly require perfection and those that don't. For example, if you're a surgeon or a pilot, perfection may be necessary for your job. But for other tasks, like everyday work assignments or household chores, strive for excellence instead of perfection. I recommend identifying no more than 3 things to perfect. Write out what those things are for you and let go of perfection everywhere else.?

2. Set realistic expectations: Understand that perfection is often an unrealistic standard. Instead of aiming for perfection, set realistic goals for yourself. Break down larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and focus on making progress rather than doing things perfectly. When you can see yourself moving forward, it can be exhilarating, so enjoy the momentum rather than worry about the end.?

3. Practice self-compassion: Forgive yourself for mistakes and shortcomings. Remember that nobody is perfect, and it's okay to make errors along the way. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a close friend or loved one.

4. Learn to let go: Accept that not everything will turn out exactly as planned, and that's okay. In fact, it should be what's expected. We love to feel like we're in control, but that's a fantasy, really. We need to learn to live with what is and trust that things will work out, even if they are not perfect.?

5. Prioritize self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Make time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation, whether it's enjoying a cup of tea, spending time with loved ones, or playing with pets. Prioritizing self-care can help reduce stress and improve overall productivity.

These 5 tips may seem obvious, but knowing and doing are two different things. How many of these strategies have you actually implemented??

Write me and let me know how impactful you've found these changes in terms of your time and mental health. I can't wait to celebrate you on your journey!

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Have a restful weekend!

Dr. Sharon, author of "The Stress Advantage " and "The Solution to Burnout "

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