Friends who understand your tears

If you love me I will always be in your heart.. if you hate me I will always be in your mind...!! - William Shakespeare. So the person in your heart is the one you loved,who gives you lots and lots of memories to weep later . But the one who wipes your tears is more important in your life than the one who gives you tears..!! Because someday you will realize you have lost a diamond while collecting stones...!!! So always be happy with what you have !! Don't ignore anyone in your life.. especially who loves you, who likes you, who cares about. If God has given you the hands why to wait for others to wipe out your tears??

There are plenty of population among the globe suffering from Malnutrition, Paralysis and Physical Disabilities. Stop being so emotional. It's only you who is responsible for your growth. No one is going to wipe out your tears until you do something well for them. Make your value. To be valuable. Only you can do that! It's your own life not that person's who's gonna wipe your tears! You make it large, everyone will fall in front of you. One who can wipe their own tears and move forward with 2 times higher potential than before is an ideal person.

A normal human, yes he is so normal that he requires someone to understand the things he is going through and stand beside him during tough times. Yes he can wipe his own tears though he wants someone who can wipe his tears because he is a normal human whose heart is filled with emotions and affections. And don't underestimate this normal human, he has got the strength in terms of people around him. He takes all the strength from his people and inspires every second and tries to move on.

Preferably not the person who caused them, unless they are happy tears. I guess an expected answer would be parents, boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse, close friends. I have seen teachers wipe tears from students, I have wiped tears from friends who are not that close, I also wiped the tears from a friend’s daughter. I have even wiped tears from girls I noticed they needed comfort and in my experience having the tears wiped is the best way to comfort a crying girl. You must not get tears easily nor show it to others. Your tears must have a value. In those instances when they do slip past you, wipe them off. Make sure you distract yourself with something.

Sometimes it’s easy to take the path of self pity during such situations, you might think “ Oh poor me, no one to wipe my tears” , be mindful to not think like this. Remember that you have friends and family who’ll hear you out but they can’t wipe your tears, you have to do it yourself. You’ll always have the strength to do it, please believe that. And you know what, a few people simply don’t care. Don’t give them the chance to prove you wrong for what you are feeling.

Till some age, yes you must share your problems and stresses with your parents and very near ones, because not everyone is that mature to laden oneself with everything in the name of being prudent. But after gaining some experiences in life. You will realise that only your parents care about you. Yet sharing you stresses to them will not lessen your problem, rather may even trouble them as you are the apple of their eye. So share you happiness with them and fight with your problems alone.

Never ever anyone apart from your family is even minutely concerned about your problems. They even do not care to hear you, most of them are happy that you have problems. Stop filling their ears. Its better to keep a low profile outside if you want to stay happy inside. Your significant other, a good friend, I wouldn't hold back a good hearted empathic person who is trying to help. I have wiped a lot of tears from several people. I have wiped my wife's tears since she was my girlfriend, I have wiped tears from friends, friends of friends and sometimes even from people I saw that just needed their tears wiped.

A lot of times since I was (still am to some extent) a crybaby. Sometimes I console people and the other times they console me. But there is one very specific incident that is close to my heart. I scored really less in some of the subjects in my unit tests and came home crying. I remember I was sitting on the floor with my head in my hand sobbing when I felt something warm (and stinky) on my ear. I looked up to see it was my pet dog. He literally licked the tears off my face and kept on playing with me despite me pushing him away. He did not leave till the time I finally caved in and was laughing and playing with him. He was such an amazing friend. Cheers!