FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

Karen Kellock Ph.D. is a relationship consultant, has written 120 books on the subject and is available for coaching. [email protected]

?LISTEN UP WOMEN! The right man will approach you in the right way: His job is to protect and provide for you lady.

"Friends with benefits" is all for him. He's not providing or protecting & he never takes you out friend.

A friend with benefits drops by your house, you eat or watch TV then he wants sex: ridiculous!

He's just using you for sex. It's gonna be your heartbreak. Get your things and that's IT.

If he wants you he has to come correct. He has to commit to a relationship or forget it.

Friends with benefits go dutch. That's a sure sign you're in a degrading relationship for you as such.

You pay your way/he pays his way and you have sex together. He wins out & you're in a bummer.

Many women do this thinking they're in a relationship and it's nothing [and costs him nothing].

It costs a man nothing to be with you--not even his time since he's out the door soon after, aye.

No time loss to him--he comes over after dark or when he gets a minute. Women: wake up and reject!

You are NOT in a relationship so wake up/stop thinking that. Has he spent a nickel? Not that brat.

Some women let em come over at midnight for a quickie and they still think they're in a relationship see.

Ladies, we've forgotten what it feels like to be treated like queens. We allow men to dictate see.

Men have told us how to comply being treated, if we wanna stay with them, can you believe it?

These men believe they are the prize and we should chase after them with glee in our eyes.

They want sex free. You're not even a prostitute you're a quick stop for free and fast food sweetie.

If they can get sex like that then for sure they'll be coming around but NEVER taking you out.

A friend with benefits will NOT provide for you. That's his job if he's with you and that's a rule.

If he's not introducing you to his friends/family as his girlfriend you have nothing so wake up friend.

He's not protecting you. He repeats evil gossip against you and laughs: it's a horrible situation Sue.

Women: Is the sex part such a big benefit for you that you're willing to be degraded like this?

Don't allow men to come in and just "do you" anyway they want to cuz you're lonely and blue.

Focus on your awakening & celibacy and the drive for inferior relationships will dissolve quickly.

You wanted a mate, it's a strong urge. But then his treatment made the urge worse for sure.

That urge is so strong you can't think logically or make good decisions. It's a total disaster friend.

Celibacy will wipe the slate clean so you can return to baseline and think logically again see.

There's no pillow talk ever, he's gotta get back to work to make money for some other woman dear.

You're just another friend to him. He comes for sex then goes to another friend to drink/dine/watch flix.

If he wants you he will AGREE to your celibacy until the time is right--when and IF respect alights.

A man who respects you sweet Sue will take the time, money and energy it takes to BE WITH YOU.

Sweet Sue, you are a valuable person and it COSTS to be with you. Remember that or be blue.

If you have this mindset, most men in your life will be kicked out. You're a queen and very devout.

The right man will approach you in the right way: His job is to protect and provide for you lady.

Men will continue to do these things as long as women remain CHEAP & FREE. Come back to reality.

Women give themselves away & cry about it later when he leaves so quickly. Feel this sweetie.

When the clown comes back around you'll be ready this time with gumption and dignity, newfound.

Immature, entitled and sexually motivated. So much so he easily lies without guilt or shame for it.

If he's sexually motivated that's is ALL HE WANTS. It's not flattery, he's turned you into a slut.

If he's that way all he's looking for is someone to have sex with just like any animal in the brush.

If he shit-shots for response--talking about sex--then get away fast because he is the worst.

She may say "let's see if we're compatible in other ways" and he's not listening cuz it's all he wants ok.

Just because a man is persistent doesn't mean he's interested in you. He just wants sex Sue.

Long after he showed who he was you still loved talking to him: this encouragement was your sin.

After he showed an interest in sex and you stayed on it was sexy to him cuz you're a bad woman.

Try getting to know him: he's not interested in intimacy. This is an irritant cuz he just wants sex see.

Give him a book on how to treat a queen and he'll say he's gotta get going cuz it's irrelevant see.

A book on intimacy? Well, he'll try but he's really beginning to think he's not your type.

Once you recognize his game, why would you ever keep talking to this guy the same?

Karen Kellock Ph.D. is a relationship consultant, has written 120 books on the subject and is available for coaching. [email protected]