Four Steps to a Super Attitude that Brings Leadership Success
Colin Thompson
Managing Partner Cavendish/Author/International Speaker/Mentor/Partner
Unexpected circumstances can be thrown at you, but what is the thing that counts most in these situations? What counts most is how you react to what happens to you, especially when you have unexpected issues/problems of any kind.
Here are four points you can do to assure that your `attitude` is the very best it can be, under all circumstances.
Focus On the Future
First, whatever challenges you face, focus on the future rather than on the past. Instead of worrying about who did what and who is to blame, focus on where you want to be and what you want to do. Get a clear mental image of your ideal successful future, and then take whatever action you can to begin moving in that direction. Get your mind, your thoughts, and your mental images on the future.
Think About the Solution
Second, whenever you're faced with a difficulty, focus on the solution rather than on the problem. `Think` and `talk` about the ideal solution to the obstacle or setback in a calm manner and, rather than wasting time rehashing and reflecting on the issue/problem. Solutions are inherently positive, whereas issues/problems are inherently negative. The instant that you begin thinking in terms of solutions, you become a positive and constructive human being.
Look For the Good
Third, assume that something good is hidden within each difficulty or challenge. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, a major proponent of positive thinking, once said, "Whenever God wants to give us a gift, he wraps it up in a issue/problem." The bigger the gift you have coming, the bigger the issue/problem you will receive. But the wonderful thing is that if you look for the gift, you will always find it.
Seek the Valuable Lesson
Fourth, assume that whatever situation you are facing at the moment is exactly the right situation you need to ultimately be successful. This situation has been sent to you to help you learn something, to help you become better, to help you expand and grow.
Decide to Be Positive
A `Positive Mental Attitude` is indispensable to your success. You can be as positive as you want to be if you will simply think about the future, focus on the solution and look for the good. If you do what other successful people do, if you use your mind to exert mental control over the situation, you will be positive and cheerful most of the time. And you will reap the benefits enjoyed by all successful people.
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You probably already know that the most successful people have incredible levels of self-confidence. They've accomplished great levels of success and happiness in their lives and seem to be uns?toppable in everything that they do. The fact is, that when you develop unshakable self-confidence your whole world will change for the better.
You'll have the confidence to take whatever steps necessary to enjoy a higher standard of living. You'll be more powerful and persuasive with other people. And you'll be more popular and likable.?It is down to you to be positive and you will be successful if you plan your life with the right attitude.
Action Exercises
Here are three steps you can take immediately to put these ideas into action:
First, become solution-oriented with every difficulty you face. Make a habit of looking for the answers to your questions, the solutions to your issues/problems.
Second, seek for the valuable lesson in every adversity. Make a list of every idea or insight you can gain from every setback or difficulty.
Third, think on paper. Take some time to write out every detail of the issue/problem, and then take the most logical next step to solve it.
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