Foundation of life is only Love

Some people would say its trust, respect for each other and al these stuffs. But as per me it is slightly different. Foundation of love lies upon priority but it doesn't mean you leave your career, dreams all behind just for love. A true love will never let this happen. The priority will exist with all aspects of life. Love means support, it never differentiates. And when you can openly express anything and resolve it healthy, but there is no point of communication if your partner refuse to understand. It is very important to find someone who would sit, talk and understand you rather than running to other person the moment things get hard.

It depends different, person to person. It is the feeling of love. When we have this feeling we seems ready to start anything even we're not good at it. It is trust. We create our own little world with the trust of ours in our partner. We trust each other, build it up, and wanted to stay it as it's in the beginning. Trust comes with loyalty. Respect. The feeling of love became more stronger and healthier when respect is there for each other. Before hurting your partner with disrespect, place yourself and try to feel what they'll feel. The words keep coming so it's on us to decide and work on what's important for our relationship to be healthy. Love your love.

Shared values and interests, in the long run that paramount to make things work, you can fall in love with someone opposite to you but maintaining this love often become tricky because they can’t relate to your experience and your values, Another strong foundation is the independence, if you rely too much on your partner to be happy, that’s not healthy (and it’s very pressuring for you so not good !) In fact, to make things work I think we should bring our own happiness to the couple, love don’t make you happy, love improve your happiness, that’s the difference. The foundation of true love should be trust and faith in the opposite person for whom you are sure you have unconditional love forever. This is a very difficult position to be in as time plays tricks and after a long spell, circumstances may change the feeling.

Accepting and loving yourself is. How do you do that? Work at it. Two and a half years of therapy with a social worker I really connected with helped me build myself into the woman I wanted to be. Really beneficial therapy is like talking to yourself with a guide who really understands you. You have a plan for what you want to accomplish, you can bring things to discuss if you want to, or you can free-flow.

If you have a lot going on in your life, free-flow is a good idea. That way you can touch on anything that crops up while you are there. I used to cry every time on the way to therapy because I would start thinking about the things I needed to talk about and I would start releasing the emotions I had compartmentalized so I could function. I was working on my stuff while we had some major immediate family issues going on, so I really had a lot on my plate. I had been in and out of therapy for years before I met this particular therapist, but it wasn’t until I started working with her that I really felt things connect and took major leaps forward. Sometimes you don’t know what everything you learn in therapy means until you put it all together with the right person.

For me, having a notebook to write things down is very important. If I don’t write things down, I won’t remember them. If I do, I will remember them because I recall the act of writing them down, where I was, and what I was doing. This is referred to as kinesthetic learning. So I have logs of therapy notes from whomever I was seeing over the years. I look at them and can see how much I’ve grown. Love is overrated when it comes to relationships. So is sex. Compatibility is far more important. At 64 years old, with a lot of life experience, a fair amount of dating experience, and decent amount of sex behind me and I can easily say

I would rather be alone than with someone I am not compatible with. They don’t behave like a brat, argue with me, refuse to listen to me, question everything I say, get hurt all the time cuz I’m too honest/blunt, and irritate me constantly. I think a strong love when someone care you without conditions without in return. a strong love will always involve two partners who help and push one another to grow and become better people – whether that means giving them some tough love, or holding their hand when they need it. Having a partner who actively supports your goals and dreams means that your relationship is strong. And in a strong love no matter your beauty and fashion. no matter your skin colour and your body size. he'll ready to accept you”The way you are” Cheers!