Forgiveness is a Gift to Yourself
Kofi Douhadji
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Forgiveness is a Gift to Yourself
In reflecting on my journey, I’ve come to understand the profound impact of forgiveness, especially in my relationship with my dad.
I’ve spoken before about my dad and some of the hurtful things that happened between us. But I want to set the record straight. Most of these experiences have turned out to be blessings in disguise. For instance, the first time I saw an airplane, my dad told me to forget dreaming about it because we were poor. At the time, it seemed harsh, but it became one of the most important things he ever said to me. It was free fuel for life, propelling me on a path that led to everything I have today.
Through time and reflection, I have made peace with my dad. We’ve rebuilt our relationship, and it’s now more beautiful than ever. This journey has taught me the power and importance of forgiveness.
I invite you to consider forgiving someone today. Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to suffer. By forgiving, you free yourself. Remember, people often say and do things from a good place, limited by what they know and can do.
You are the captain of your choices. Despite what others say, it’s your life. Take the seat in the guide control house, the cockpit of your ship, and steer your life in the direction you choose.
With gratitude and hope,
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9 个月I love to read what you write Kofi DouhadjiIt could be on a napkin (I only wish I was close enough to keep it) The relationships I've had with my parents has been rocky at times. Like you, my Dad, who passed last December said some painful and hurtful things. And those changed me for the better. A blessing. ? You are the captain of your choices. Despite what others say, it’s your life. Take the seat in the guide control house, the cockpit of your ship, and steer your life in the direction you choose.
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10 个月Kofi Douhadji - This is so profound - and empowering: "By forgiving, you free yourself. Remember, people often say and do things from a good place, limited by what they know and can do. You are the captain of your choices. Despite what others say, it’s your life. Take the seat in the guide control house, the cockpit of your ship, and steer your life in the direction you choose." Your choice to move beyond the hurt is admirable - and encouraging! ??
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10 个月A relationship repaired through forgiveness is a stronger relationship, Kofi Douhadji. Thank you for the reminder!
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