Forgive and find the missing PEACE

Forgiveness and peace were central to the teachings of Jesus Christ. 1Thessalonians 5:17 says ” Pray constantly “ Matthew 5:9 says “Happy are the peacemakers” James 3:18 says The fruit of righteousness is sown in peaceful conditions for those who are making peace" Philippians 4:6,7 says “ Do not be anxious over anything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving, let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus.” Matthew 5:23,24 says “if then you are bringing your gift to the altar and there you remember that your brother has something against you , leave your gift there in front of the altar and go away first make peace with your brother and then come back and offer your gift.” Matthew 6:14 says “ For if we forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive you. I wrote the the scriptures out because God's word says it way better than I can. If we take the inactive to forgive our brothers, this makes peace. Making peace gives us peace and make us and our heavenly father happy. We also show that we are doing our best to follow Jesus example. It also gains favor with Jehovah and strengthens our faith.

Peace from within. The past is history. Ancient Rome, BC time, even yesterday. Stored memories best reflecting occasional fond memories forgiving all my errors and mistakes, endured pain, and pain I’d inflicted upon others. Time expired hopefully is not pain remaining now, or healed soon, it deep rooted, eventually mending or management. understand that people often are produced, molded and shaped by inherited genetics, direct environmental conditioning, systemic designs, and free personal will.

Anybody who has harmed you, was challenged some way or another. They might have been abused as a child. suffered permanent or untreated trauma. They might just be wired that way generically. Maybe they were not raised on values that instil a well developed moral compass. We are all human, no matter how much monstrosity some people demonstrate. I forgive all the wrong I’d committed in my past by absolving myself. The shackles of guilt by making honest conscious efforts to not repeat the selfish acts permits absolved guilty conscience I dislike the weight carried living in self loath, regret, resentment; etc it’s just weight oppressing growth, hindering peace, poisonous toxicity in the mind.

I also have to forgive the people who took advantage of my vulnerability when loss was their personal gain. Inflicting pain upon me was validation of their own. And deception considered advantage although integrity empowerment. And honesty is not only credibility, but respect and social compatibility and growth.I’m not capable of allowing a emotionally, or intellectually, or morally, or spirituality challenged individual challenge my already existing and earned development and growth. Or continual growth. Yea, I give into impulses and frustration, anger, sometimes, when a hit is delivered and the wound is fresh and the pain raw. But I manage my immediate natural impulses or primitive programmed defensive response as well I can.

Take a silent moment sitting alone with no one. Reflect about what just happened to you whether you are the victim or you have wronged to someone. After all that happens, you will understand that the fact is, you cannot turn back the time. What is done is done. Accept or just embraced it. Trying to keep your mind and heart calm first and remember, no matter who is right or wrong, any one from both of you choose to make it the right thing, then other must work on support together. From here, most of us have been failed for unable to calm down but rather let the Anger, hatred, blindness took over. The worst thing is that we are the one who chose to refused to forgive me when the peace nearly exit door. Resentment and grudge clouded on minds. Until it was already too late.

Even if you said that it was over, at least work together for a moment until everything settled down. Then, both can have a peace before going out separate ways. Running away leaves other to deal it alone especially when they do want to work things out but you refused it for you are the victim and they are wrong, not just a sign of immature but truly “Piece of life”.I've seen enough those two side of the stories with only tears ended. I do not want to be like this again. I must be better than this and wiser.

This is how I deal with friends and people anyone. I am happy that I did the right thing with the peace of my mind returned to me. I hopefully it may help you to forgive and find peace you seek for. But it will only works if you let it in. If you are only the one person who left, then you can proceed with one person only. Everything that i share step by step can be applied too. Just one thing different, you have to learn forgiving yourselves. Cheers and Peace