Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you....
"Forgive and Forget" has been advocated by all leaders and imbibed by good learners. Live life for what tomorrow has to offer not for what yesterday has taken away. If all of us were perfect, how will we ever evolve and how will the world grow?
In professional environment, honest disagreements are promoted and harnessed. Most disagreements are caused by perception errors. In progressive cultures, disagreeing while controlling your tongue is awarded. If two people agree all the time, one of them is certainly useless. If they disagree all the time, both are.
Never hold on to grudges or seek revenge. Never waste your time trying to go back and change the past. When people hurt you, think of them like sand paper. They may scratch you, but you end up polished and they end up useless. Open your heart, develop compassion, learn to listen, seek to understand, practice empathy and be human. People will forget what you said or did but will never forget how you made them feel. Make them feel blessed, always.
Keep Learning, Keep Growing, Keep Winning!!!
Retires Scientist G & Scientist In charge MERADO Ludhiana CSIR / CMERI and Ex Commander (Indian Navy)
6 年I suppose that's the way one gathers experience
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6 年Shama virasya bhusanam - Bhagvan Mahavir.
IIMB | Senior Partner- L&D at RateGain | Leadership Development
6 年Forget and Forgive, it comes only by practicing consciously to be this way.. And yes all the hurt and suffering makes u grow to be a better person. Loved the article, thanks for sharing :)