Focusing all of your efforts on attracting a man

Own your value and use it in your strategy ……

Eye Contact

The eyes have it. Eye contact is key in first impressions.

Know what you’re looking for. If a man doesn’t meet your needs, let him go.

Never hide your personality.

Know that you’re the catch!

Trying to “do things” that you are completely uncomfortable with because you think it will attract a man is a horrible idea because you will not be comfortable.

How to attract a man that you like and how to attract men in general is such a big topic that I get asked about constantly by women.

What is it that “those kind” of women are doing that makes them so irresistible?

Have you ever watched two strangers meet and felt an instant spark of curiosity?

Or seen a couple out on a date and wondered how they managed to snag each other?

If you’re like most people, the answer is probably yes. But what is it that makes one person attractive to another?

And more importantly, can you learn how to attract men using the science of attraction?

Well, in this article I will take you through some of the most common and universally applicable things you can do to make yourself more attractive to men and attract the man you want.

I’m giving you this information all from a man’s perspective and I am warning you now… first of all, these are all my opinions. Don’t dress to attract men overmuch but do wear something that is flattering for your body type and attractive to men in general.

So, if you’re looking to snag yourself a man, it might be worth your time to experiment with different dressing styles.

To turn him on

I am well aware that there are always exceptions and different people like different things. But what I am going to take you through is some of the most common and universally true things that make a man feel attracted to you.

You might or might not be surprised to know that a lot of has to do with your internal mental state.

Your internal mental state is what comes across as your “vibe” and overall “persona” that you give off to men. When you are in a bad mood, for example, even if you pretend not to be, it comes across to him.

This leads me to the first mindset that you need to know to attract men.

Your Mood

Making your mood a priority is going to be a huge win for you when it comes to being more attractive.

Why?

Men are instinctively attracted to happy women. When you are in a good mood, he feels this pleasant vibe when he is around you.

Men can sense your vibe and you don’t have to say anything to make it come across; in fact, the less you “try” to “prove” what a good mood you are in and the more you focus on actually being in a good mood, the better off you will be.

Have Fun

Do things you enjoy. Take the time out to do fun things in your life where you can let loose and really laugh and have fun with things.

Whether it’s going out with friends and having a good time or spending time with family and living life in a happy, fun way.

Experience life in the moment and don’t dwell on trivial things that don’t matter.

If you genuinely have fun and are happy, this automatically makes you more attractive to men. Men are attracted to happy women who can laugh a lot and are happy. Don’t fake it; this comes off as fake and won’t be attractive.

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Thank you?….?Don’t Compare Yourself to Other Women

I understand the instinct to compare yourself to other women and to other people in general. Maybe you see another woman and you think to yourself, “if only I had ….t whatever it is that you wish you could change about yourself that she has.

Take this mindset and put it aside.

The reason I am saying to you this is because when you compare yourself, all you do is make yourself feel miserable and frustrated. The best thing to do is be your best self and focus on things you can control and improve upon. This will make you feel good.

Do What Feels Comfortable

You might have heard that wearing a wacky outfit or doing some super sensual and risqué is the only way to attract a man.

Forget all of this. Trying to “do things” that you are completely uncomfortable with because you think it will attract a man is a horrible idea because you will not be comfortable.

Being comfortable is essential when it comes to being attractive to a man. If you are comfortable, you will find that everything you do is naturally and effortlessly more attractive to men.

Know Yourself

Self-discovery is an ongoing process that we all go through in our lives. We are always growing and changing as people.

This is an important step when it comes to being attractive:

Get to know yourself as much as you can and this will automatically make you feel more confident and comfortable.

What I mean by know yourself is know your strengths and weaknesses and be able to identify what you are good at and what you aren’t naturally good at.

These mindsets are going to automatically make you more attractive to men.

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Your Appearance Will Attract Men You Want

Obviously physical appearance is a topic that has to be addressed when it comes to making a man attracted to you.

It’s a fact of life: men and human beings are visual creatures.

There are certain things a man is going to respond to whether he wants to or not. I’m only giving you this information to help you… not to offend or be rude, so please pay attention.

Makeup

Every man has different preferences when it comes to makeup, but there is a consistent theme with what most men seem to find attractive.

For me personally, I like it when a woman puts in effort to do makeup that enhances how she already looks but does not pile on the foundation and then add a bunch of different powders and whatnot to it.

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I have seen women wearing those huge fake eyelashes for example and then a ton of fake tanner on and so much makeup it was obvious from a mile away… and I suppose some men do find this hot but most would prefer a little bit less.

With that said, a good application of makeup can certainly transform a woman’s look so definitely don’t be afraid to put on makeup.

This is a very sensitive topic and I don’t want anyone to get offended and say that I am trying to say all women have to be skinny.

This is not true at all. All I am saying is that being as fit as you possibly can and making healthy eating choices (healthy eating choices not starving) is the key to looking your best.

Listen to your body don’t try to look how you naturally can’t look without having to starve or be unhealthy. This is key. Healthy is hot.

Clothes

Clothing can make a big difference when it comes to being attractive to men. Now, the main thing is that you wear clothes that fit your body well and accentuate your best assets.

Now I am not saying to go out in stripper heels and a nonexistent dress that shows almost your entire body. Unless this is what you like and it makes you feel good, but don’t do that because you think it’s going to make men more attracted to you.

To be honest, being too skimpy to a point of absurdity when you first meet a man actually might be a turn-off to some men.

The ideal way to dress is a combination of sexy and leaving something to the imagination. But most importantly find clothing that fits your body well and makes you feel good.

Hair

Every man has different preferences when it comes to hair and in general all you really need to focus on is that you feel good about it.

Whether it’s a simple, layered medium length cut or long hair or shorter hair… The point is that you feel good and make an effort when it comes to doing your hair.

Perfume is actually something that a lot of women over do. Most men do not like very strong perfume. You’re better off sticking with something very light and being very conservative with how much you spray.

Being clean is obviously important and goes without saying in terms of smelling good; drenching yourself in perfume is not. One thing most men agree upon is that women’s hair normally smells amazing from all the shampoo products and stuff.

The point is less is more.

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