Five Money Mindset Blocks That Are Holding You Back From Success

Money is essential to success in business, whether you like it or not. In fact, it is part of your spiritual path. Your relationship with money mirrors your relationship with yourself and your life. How you show up with money is likely how you are showing up in other areas as well. The truth is, money is an exchange of value. PERIOD.? Are your stories about it making money your friend or foe? Let’s start detaching the emotion around money and reframe the stories so you can keep more in your pocket and make a bigger impact.??

Let’s face it, years of programmed beliefs and generational stories around money are keeping you in a choke hold and it is so sad to watch. Today I am going to support you to break down the blocks so you can allow abundance to flow and get you in the driver’s seat and have you take back the wheel and stop money- or lack of, keep taking your wheel.?

Your thoughts and beliefs are controlling your actions. The problem is you are not always aware of the limiting thoughts or where they come from. Awareness is the lock and action is the key.?

Let’s explore the stories and beliefs we hold as truths about success, money and relationships. Here are the five Money Mindset Blocks that you get to address NOW to move forward.

1. Deservability

Do you find yourself overgiving, people-pleasing, and being too available? I noticed people-pleasing becoming a theme in my life and I took the time to confront this roadblock. My discovery was this: Underneath the pleasing was guilt, hiding a sense of “not-enoughness”. The more I gave, the more it gave me a false sense of being enough”. A deep-seated belief that I did not deserve a high level of success was at the root of this, and if I had let it remain, I would not be where I am today. To dissolve this limiting belief about the concept of deservability requires a rewrite of your story. Imagine what it would be like if you walked around owning your worth, and believing where you are today is exactly where you are supposed to be, and you are enough right here, right now? What new actions might you take???

2. Value

When faced with setting prices for your services or products, many limiting beliefs and old stories can bubble to the surface. Often this leads to undervaluing and even giving away your services, ultimately slowing your growth. Instead of giving away your services, products, and expertise- remind yourself that what you are offering to the world is high value and potential clients get to choose the value they place on that. Most people in all industries? have a run-in with “Imposter Syndrome” and believe they need more experience to show up, charge higher fees or be in action.? Your life is your experience. Make it a priority to collect testimonials from people you work with.? This helps on those days where you feel like you’re undeserving or aren’t good enough and you can reflect on those testimonials that disprove your story.

3. Love

If you are passionate about your business but have set up a cycle of feast or famine or resist sharing your success stories, this one's for you! Inside this money block is the emotion of shame and a belief that if you have more than others, they won’t accept you. One of our primary human needs is love.? From an early age, we navigate the world by searching out friends and often desiring more than anything to be accepted.?

Likewise, while growing a business, winning the trust and acceptance of your potential clients continues to be of high importance and often draws out these longstanding fears of not being accepted or liked. Unfortunately, what tends to happen is that you will experience immense success and then shut down quickly afterwards.?

For those experiencing this Money Block, let’s set the record straight, if you have what they want to create, they will trust that you have already been there and can help them get there. Downplaying your success is not helping anybody, and it’s also not bragging to share your breakthroughs! It’s time to step up your leadership.

4. Courage

For most people in business “money conversations” are among the scariest parts of running a business. In terms of overcoming this, I suggest that? practice makes perfect. After all, no conversations means no business. Your business depends on having many conversations where you get to talk about money. Own your worth, exchange your value for money, and believe in your ability to change someone’s life. Remember this, the value clients get is based on their participation and this applies to you even if you sell makeup. Buying from you is one thing but applying what they buy is another. They get to choose how important it is to them. They also get to choose to have you in their corner to support them or not. Get accustomed to hearing no without making it mean that they are rejecting you! Business is not personal.??

5. Boundaries

Do you cave in when someone bucks at your prices or decide in advance how much people can afford for your services? These are signs of a money block. Fear of rejection is the main culprit. Ultimately, we believe clients matter and we don’t. When I started coaching, my 90 Day program was $600 Canadian dollars and I thought “Nobody would pay that”.? 6 years later when I made my first $30K offer I didn’t bat an eyelash and neither did my clients. One person actually cried and said, “I thought you were going to be so much more to work with. I am so grateful for the opportunity.”?

After investing $200k and thousands of hours of blood sweat and tears to get to where I am in business and life I believe I am saving people time and money. This is the kicker, when I believed I wasn’t deserving, my CLIENTS showed up with the same beliefs and I couldn’t help them breakthrough until I believed I was deserving too.”?

Setting healthy boundaries is not only necessary for your own success, it will affect the lives of your clients. They want to work with leaders so “Be the coach you would hire”.

If you are ready to rewrite your outdated stories, free yourself from money blocks and take your business to new heights, schedule a call with me.?

Tina?

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