The first time you fall in love?
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The first time you fall in love?

Falling in love is a heavenly feeling or a magical trance that makes everything in life better, brighter and more beautiful.

The feeling is always exciting, overwhelming and equally surreal for all.

?However, the experience and the entire process of realization may differ in many ways.

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It doesn’t matter if you’ve fallen in love once or multiple times, there is always something magical about falling in love for the first time.

?It remains with you forever and becomes a part of your life.

So why would I ever fall in love?

Because I would want to be in love, that sure feels awesome. And I know that this world is full of wonderful people. I just have to spend time to explore their awesomeness and hopefully together we can be happier than we already are.

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People often forget this simple fact. The purpose of any relationship is elated happiness. You get into a relationship because it makes you happy, the happiness of the other person comes second.

I know, I know you are going to tell me that it’s not like that, you love a girl because you want to make her happy! Yeah right! But she is already happy, I don’t see you falling for a sad girl?

You spent time exploring the other person: Yeah, I know that she is the awesome person in all of the entire universe and all other people are just plain simple and retarded. There is no way someone could ever live up to that standard. Hmm, is that so?

Convenience: Because it was convenient, she was in your circle or circumstances were such that it was relatively easy to interact.

You wanted to be in love.

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Thank you?...Why won’t I ever love again? I won’t ever love the same again. I will love, just not the way I did, in the past.

I have loved.

I have lost. I have learnt.

I have grown as an individual.

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?Love has taught me some of the best lessons in life. I am not giving up on love. I have just given up on the person I was, when in love. I am different now. I am changed.

I know who to love. I know how to love. I know what love is. I believe in true love but I have moments when I wonder whether love truly believes in me.

Love isn’t what I felt for someone. Love is what I felt when there was nothing else left.

I will definitely love again. Love is beautiful. I am not afraid of it. I am not running away from it. It will just never be the same again. I will never be the same again.

I will and I am definitely looking forward too.

Do you want to add a word or two?....

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Loving someone makes me vulnerable. It's just like giving someone sword and waiting for them to tear you apart.

I will not fall in love again because last time when I fell for someone I got hurt badly. I became possessive and moody. I wanted him to be around me each and every moment. I just became someone else and also my own worst enemy.

I lost my identity. I used to think about him and wanted to please him at any cost. I lost myself just because I was too busy in loving someone else.

Deep inside my heart knows that I still want to fall in love again and experience butterflies in stomach.

This question is for me.

I won’t ever love again. Why?

I don’t want to replace her.

I don’t want to suffer again.

Your comments?....

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I had a girl. I was literally hers (I am). We planned everything for life. Even name of babies. Sounds crazy to everyone, but those who loved once. I have some good plans to bring in action. And I don’t want them to share with someone else other than her.

I have some good memories which I earned with her. I don’t want to erase them.

I still want her back. Although I know that it is impossible. She will never return to me. She has a habit to play with boys.

I am afraid that, I will feel the pain again if I will fall in love again. With her or any other.

Why will I never fall in love again ?

Of course, I will not. According to me love can only be happen once in life and with only one person.

Nobody can have feelings for more than one person. Now talking about my personal life, being a boy I can't be with other girl just to compare her with my crush and be disappointed.

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My crush is one of the best thing which has ever happened to me.

Nobody will be able to replace her. I mean to say, “How can anybody come and easily replace the girl which I like from so many years?”.

?Being with any other girl is something like cheating or disrespecting the girl which I like.

So for me second love doesn't exist .Loyalty and respect are the two essential qualities which decides the future of any relationship. So I don't think so I will ever fall in love again with anybody except my crush

I love “Love” and the feeling of being in love.

It makes you vulnerable and it hurts;

But not to forget;

It does make life blissful and a sweet dessert.

It is one of its kind; rare and divine.

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I feel blessed; I feel lucky --To have felt that love which is sweet And yes, yes, yes; would never mind To fall in love; to be in love; Again and again; with the love of my life

Life in this era is already full of lot of tensions, worries and I did not wanted any sorts of more of them in my life.

I still have to travel a very long journey to achieve my dreams and I really don’t want any distractions at all.

Many time it is not love but just an attraction and it will surely leads to problems throughout life.

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With love comes responsibilities and frankly I do not want them at this stage of life.

Dayal Ram

Managing Director at DAYALIZE

2 年

When you fall in love for the first time, that person becomes the center of your world. There is nothing that excites you in life than the quality time spent with the person you love. ?Everything you do together makes sense and time seems to pass by in split seconds. If you have met someone, who you feel is ‘The One’ and that your relationship is going to last for forever, then you have definitely fallen in love. It is this strange feeling that tells you ‘this is it’ and makes you deny everything that says otherwise. You probably have even started thinking about a future together. If that’s the case, then you might as well confess. Before going live about your relationship, check and see if your inquisitive friends and family are off your social media charts. ?Nosy friends and family can do more harm than an unknown person, who either does not matter to you or has no connection with your closed ones. However, your near and dear ones can spread the message more swiftly and can give you a hard time.

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