First tell me before telling the world about my mistakes

As a good friend of ours we always expect him or her to tell us if we made a mistake privately first rather than announcing it to the world. Consider that now you have done something which is absolutely seeming normal to you, but tends to be wrong in the eyes of other people,you’re definitely going to face a bitter time for some period. Once a mistake is committed, it cannot be immediately re-corrected or undone.

After some point of time you will come to know or it can happen you realize after a long time ,or it can also happen that you may never ever know whats wrong,so I think you should discuss about it with someone always,take a third person’s opinion and try to correct it.Look, it won’t be ever the situation where no one will ever tell you that “Oh, that is fine,all cool .You’re absolutely right.”

The choice of people whom you chose to discuss with those who are close to you those who care for you and are trustworthy enough will definitely tell you an opinion where they think that there is some red line here which shouldn't have been marked or crossed. This part written below is specially about some critical mistakes or decisions which usually we all make in life so I would like to mention about that too.

The part above was about others, now you yourself need to first think, analyse and look into the matter.We all have our conscious and subconscious minds running simultaneously, human beings have the quality called as sense of discrimination and understand the power of wisdom. Also we always think about a particular work we do, claiming it to be like “I have done” or “my” or “mine” ,then definitely chances of committing mistakes are more.

Because the thought process is running only with a mindset which cares about only the self, and will always. If you are in such a situation where you need to do something or take a step, you know very well and this does not need to be explained in a detailed manner in an answer that how a person needs to think from all points of view giving respect to how his decisions or works might affect others.

Also, this is how the world is, no one cares about anybody and definitely won’t bother to help you rather than letting the thing go, or utmost laughing at you for committing mistake.Therefore, choose the right people.Try to be independent and confident, and have a more wider space of thinking while you think what you’re doing or what you’re about to do.

I see the situation like when someone has a toilet paper tail. Most of people will laugh at the person who made the mistake and won't even try to tell them that they have TP hanging off their backside. That person would have no idea until they are forced to change clothes to realise their mistakes. Its not other peoples fault, but they are not exactly helping are they?

People blame others because they always think about themselves. These type of people may achieve success in short term (like many politicians) but will never succeed in long term (like Gandhi and Lincoln). You should never accept mistakes if it's not yours. It will make you weak. You must fight against it. Note: Pls accept every mistake and always be sorry even if its from your wife. People are very near sighted. They are blind when talking about anything other than self. They are self centered.

Why people blame others? The news and media nowadays change the definition of good and band person. According to them, a person with no mistake is a good person versus a person who has done many mistakes is a bad person. This idea has occupied minds of many millennials. Every person wants to be good person cause that will get him respect from society, good job etc. Nobody wants to be bad. So if a person does something wrong anf he aspire to be good person he would never want to involved or linked with the mistake. So that he can keep up with his mediocre life and mediocre jobs. He will live and die with mediocrity.

Whereas a person who accepts his mistakes and never blame others for his mistake, he/she will analyse the mistake and will find out what went wrong and will never repeat it again he will go for excellence in everything he does. By doing this he not only improving himself but he will be more confident in whatever he does. In the long run he will be exceptionally good at whatever he/she does. Cheers!