First of Freedom - A Life Journey
Padmanaban Solaimalai
Digital Transformation| Program Management |Agile Coach |Sports Enthusiast
There are very few fellow travelers in your train having a manuscript in our memory folds. You will feel unhappy of the stop to alight approaching shortly.
When the train started, I was gazing the people around and then found one very keen in observing others and trying to comprehend. I could feel the person is very observant and learning from the atmosphere. Howard Gardner would have a real puzzle of meeting such a person, to decide which quadrant would I place this character as she has most amazing caliber in several spheres of intelligence.
When you meet and connect with such fascinating personality you get drifted to extreme experiences and would re-mantle several stereotypes assimilated from our formative years of life.
Our discussion started with simple introduction and moved how she surprisingly became president of Literary Club, making a valid reason for bunking the classes in college days. The story of rain delaying the train and bus taking the curse of being the late for the semester exam. Amusingly the conversation had lot of events without hiccups with free flow. I even inquired midway whether she is trained story teller or done radio jockeying in her past. I asked about her childhood dream and is that the same even today.
She made me amazed with the retort, men and women are unique on their own ways, the nature and necessity go hand in hand. Though the super comfortable zone is good for me, if it continues for long then the flow will excite very little. I gravitated towards the UPSC preparation. The farce of feudal outfit was a challenge within to dream our way of strong desire of becoming a Civil Service Officer.
Self-doubt is the frenemy for oneself and the congenial people around bring me to back at the crest of disbanding. For me failure was very important, the boredom in one form gives evolution of more creative ways to use time judiciously and come back strong. The idea of focusing on we as a team during my entrepreneurial experience was a breakthrough to know my skills better.
“Many ask to me what I achieved in life, I simply say that I have active life consciously and enjoy every moment. I have no clinched dimension of thinking and I am open to accept the life in free flow. This is freedom according to me. “
Self-doubt is the frenemy for oneself and the congenial people around aids to bounce back at the crest of disbanding. Failure was very important, the boredom in one form gives evolution of more creative ways. I have no clinched dimension of thinking even after failures and I am open to accept the life in free flow. This is freedom according to me.
A prominent question hovering in my mind was stumped, the passionate spinster I met was striking and to me to know that the dream could vary, it is no culpability to have different aspirations in episode of life. Life has got a flow and we ride over it with an untold sync, the journey could be bumpy and jolty too.
Freedom is not preserving the thoughts and perception we possess, it is the clearness and calmness to understand the happenings around us and care ourselves to be unobstructed with the preconceived frame of mind.
I felt like meeting a seasoned life coach and got insights of leading a happy and balanced life. At the end, no, I feel like revising it to “at that juncture” I even suggested her to try out RJ or story teller. Every phase of life is a transition with learnedness imbibed, staying calm aids all way through…… #Scribebycoachgrovin #Firstoffreedom
Associate Manager at IQVIA - cFSP/Tmf Operations
5 年Nice one Padmanaban Solaimalai #freedom is also about tolerating the intolerance #patience #acceptence #being naive ??????