Finding Your Vasudeva: The Art of Choosing the Right Influencers in Life

In life, we often find ourselves at crossroads, seeking guidance, inspiration, and direction. If we have to draw an analogy from Mahabharat, just like the epic mind game between Vasudeva, the master strategist of ancient times, and Shakuni, the cunning ex-king of Gandhara, our modern world is filled with influencers who can either lead us towards victory or guide us into a trap.

But how do we identify these influencers? How do we discern between a Vasudeva and a Shakuni in our personal or professional circles?

Let's get to know Vasudeva and Shakuni a bit more.

Vasudeva, revered for his wisdom and foresight, was a beacon of guidance for those around him. He was the ultimate benefactor, always placing the greater good above personal gain. His influence was rooted in principles, integrity, and a vision that extended beyond the immediate.

On the other hand, Shakuni, though equally influential, was driven by personal vendettas and a desire to manipulate outcomes for his own ends. He was a master of strategy, but his guidance often led to divisive outcomes, fueled by hidden agendas.

In today’s world, we all encounter both Vasudevas and Shakunis. Some will uplift us, helping us navigate challenges with wisdom and a long-term vision. Others might pull us into their schemes, where the end goal serves their interests rather than our own.

Spotting the Influencers in Your Life.

Assess Their Intentions: Like Vasudeva, a true influencer’s advice is often grounded in a desire to see you succeed and grow. Ask yourself—do they have your best interests at heart, or are they motivated by personal gain, like Shakuni?

Observe Their Impact: The influence of a Vasudeva leads to sustainable growth, positive relationships, and constructive outcomes. A Shakuni, however, often leaves behind a trail of discord and short-lived victories. Look at the results of their influence in your life or the lives of others.

Evaluate Their Consistency: Vasudeva’s guidance was consistent and rooted in values. Shakuni, on the other hand, adapted his strategies to serve his immediate needs. Pay attention to whether the advice you receive is consistent with core values or shifts depending on the situation.

Seek Long-Term Benefits: The true test of influence lies in its longevity. Vasudeva’s wisdom continues to resonate because it was built on enduring principles. If the guidance you receive offers long-term benefits, it’s more likely to be from a Vasudeva than a Shakuni.

The Choice is Yours

In the end, the influencers we choose to listen shape our paths, just as the choices of allies determined the fates of kingdoms in ancient times. It’s up to us to distinguish between the Vasudevas who guide us with wisdom and the Shakunis who might lead us astray with cunning. By recognizing these traits in the people around us, we can make better decisions, both in our personal lives and our careers.

So, who’s influencing your game ? Are you being mentored by a Vasudeva or a Shakuni?