Finding a Real Man - How To Avoid Dating App Fakers & AI Profiles
Finding a real man just got even harder and took on a completely new meaning! Let me explain. With the rise of Artificial Intelligence (AI), we are seeing more and more fake people and profiles on dating apps. An increasing number of companies and people use artificial intelligence to write their messages for them. So even if there happens to be a real picture of a real person, it may not be who you’re messaging with ! In the online dating world it’s already hard to have trust and know if the person on the other end is telling you the truth, but now, in addition to catfish (people pretending to be someone they are not), and insincere copy-and-paste messagers you also have to deal with actual artificial people and artificial messaging.
I’m here to give you a few insider tips from a dating expert on how to suss out and identify those fake profiles and people using artificial intelligence to message you. You can’t find your real soulmate, lifelong partner, and real man your messaging with. What to look out for…
- the messages express empathy, but either too much or too little given the situation (AI, or just people copy-and-pasting or paying little attention to their messaging because they are not genuine, will disaply the 'wrong' level of empathy for what you are sharing about)
- the tone of the profile and messages may feel right (kind, relaxed, happy, interested, etc.) but be very short on details. When the profile or messages are full of generic statements that many people could say, there's a higher chance you are dealing with a bot, Artificial Intelligence written profile or message, or mass copy-and-paster ingenuine person
- incongruities: if you notice little inconsistencies, like he says he grew up in Bethesda, but all his photos of highschool and university look like another continent, or his photos don't all look consistent with one another (remember, AI is also creating images now)
- Too good to be true and telling you exactly what you want to hear... like HYPER specific to your desires and fantasies! Sometimes, online daters will use what you have said in your profile, or once they have your name use what you've posted publicly, to then revers engineer telling you things they KNOW you like. For example, if they hear you love cats, and then see you have two cats and like cat charities on your social media, they can easily pose as a huge cat lover. If there are TOO many things like this, and he is weirdly specific and a PERFECT fit for your specific passions, places you go, etc etc then it could be a faker (whether a person mis-representing themselves or an AI that as fed your profile and other info and told to invent the perfect man to seduce you)
- Use Google Image search to reverse search the photos in their profile or that they sent you. Make sure these are not photos that have been stolen from other people online, or stock photos.
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Look, MOST online and app daters are still real (HOPEFULLY!) but bringing your intuition to these platforms is a must. Meeting face to face, through your regular daily life is still an unbeatable way to have more information based in reality. Yes, people can still misrepresent themselves, but it's much harder. If you are going to use dating apps, just be prepared and use your best judgement!
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Have a great week!
Much Love,
Barry