Finding My Tribe: Reflections on My First SACMHA Christmas Do

As the year draws to a close, I had the privilege of attending my very first Christmas dinner with SACMHA Health & Social Care . Considering I’ve been with the organisation for less than a year, it was a truly special experience for me. I know that Christmas isn’t for everyone—it can be a challenging time, laden with the pressures of a commercialised society and the complexities of personal histories. But for me, there’s something undeniably meaningful about the season.

It’s not just the decorations or the festivities, though those are lovely. It’s the sense of togetherness, the chance to connect with the community, and the joy of gathering around a table to share food, stories, and laughter.

This year’s celebration was held at the Duke Street Church of God of Prophecy, who were kind enough to host us and provide the culinary delights. It was wonderful to have SACMHA service users, carers, volunteers, trustees, and friends all in one space. The warmth and generosity of the church added so much to the day, making it a truly memorable event.

One of the highlights of the celebration was gambinga gambinga ’s amusing revelation that, until 2019, he believed mince pies contained meat. It’s moments like these that remind us of the joy in shared stories and laughter.

Of course, the absence of our illustrious CEO, David Bussue , was felt by everyone. Currently battling the mysterious "dreaded lurgy," he was missed, and we all wished him a speedy recovery.

For me, this event wasn’t just about the festivities—it was about the connections made. I had the chance to properly sit down and 'chop it up' with Terezia Rostas , someone I’d only known in passing before. Through our conversation, I discovered the shared humanity that often lies just beneath the surface, waiting for an opportunity to emerge.

In SACMHA, I’ve found my people—my brethren (with a “d-r-i-n,” for those who know). They understand me, and I understand them. We can laugh, share, and even call each other out when needed—but always with love. It’s a space where I can be my authentic self, surrounded by individuals who value honesty and openness.

When our chair, Celia Jackson Chambers , opened the event, she reminded us all of SACMHA’s vital role—not just as an organisation, but as a lifeline. For the community, SACMHA provides critical support. But for those of us who work here, it also supports our well-being and offers a sense of purpose. It’s hard to imagine life without SACMHA and the spaces it creates for us all.

The day was made even more special by the efforts of so many individuals. A heartfelt thank you to all the brothers and sisters who dedicated their time to ensure the event’s success. The food was delicious, the conversations were meaningful, and the music brought us all together.

This celebration was about more than Christmas—it was about building spaces where we can listen to one another, grow together, and discuss the things that truly matter. It’s in moments like these that we remember the importance of community and the power of connection.

As I reflect on the day, I feel immense gratitude. Gratitude for the people I’ve met, the stories we’ve shared, and the opportunities SACMHA has provided to be part of something larger than myself. This Christmas do wasn’t just a celebration—it was a reminder of why spaces like SACMHA matter so much.

Here’s to connection, community, and finding our tribe.