Finding Fulfillment Through Alignment with Self
Amber Ontiveros
| Author | Mentor | Ally: Transforming Executives Beyond Imposter Syndrome into Confident Leaders
How often do we find ourselves chasing external validation, seeking approval and recognition from others for the work we do? It's a common narrative in today's society – the pursuit of success and happiness through achievements and accolades bestowed upon us by the external world. But what if the true source of fulfillment lies not in external validation, but in the alignment between our work and our authentic selves?
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Consider this: when we genuinely enjoy what we do, it's easy to believe that our satisfaction stems solely from external factors – the praise of others, the rewards of success, or the validation of our efforts. Yet, upon closer examination, we may discover that the real source of our fulfillment lies within the intrinsic alignment between our work and who we are at our core.
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Here's why:
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Authentic Engagement: When our work is in alignment with our values, passions, and strengths, we become fully engaged and invested in what we do. It's not just about meeting external expectations or chasing after rewards; it's about expressing our authentic selves through our work. This genuine engagement fuels our passion and drives us to excel, irrespective of external validation.
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Inner Fulfillment: True fulfillment comes from within, stemming from a deep sense of satisfaction and purpose that transcends external recognition. When our work aligns with our true selves, we experience a profound sense of fulfillment that cannot be replicated by external achievements alone. It's the satisfaction of knowing that we are living in alignment with our values and making a meaningful contribution to the world.
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Sustained Motivation: External validation may provide temporary boosts to our motivation and confidence, but true motivation comes from within. When our work resonates with who we are, we are driven by an intrinsic desire to grow, learn, and evolve. This inner motivation sustains us through challenges and setbacks, propelling us forward on our journey of personal and professional development.
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Authentic Connection: Authenticity breeds connection – both with ourselves and with others. When we are true to ourselves in our work, we attract like-minded individuals who resonate with our values and vision. These authentic connections foster a sense of belonging and community that enriches our lives far more than any external validation ever could.
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So how can we shift our focus from external validation to internal alignment? It starts with self-awareness and self-reflection. Take the time to explore your values, passions, and strengths, and seek out opportunities that align with who you are at your core. Cultivate a mindset of authenticity and integrity in your work, prioritizing alignment with your true self over external accolades.
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Remember, true fulfillment comes not from seeking validation from others, but from living in alignment with our authentic selves. When we embrace who we are and allow it to shine through in our work, we unlock a source of fulfillment and joy that transcends external validation. So dare to be true to yourself, and watch as your work becomes a reflection of the beautiful soul that resides within you.
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