Find Out What Really Works to Break Free from Depression
Ata Ur Rehman
Product Owner | Project Manager | Operations Manager & Marketing Manager | Helping Brands Grow With Tailored Solutions
I remember the first time depression hit me. It felt like falling into a deep, dark pit with no way out. But with time, counseling, and a lot of effort, I climbed out and thought I was free. Little did I know, that was just the beginning of a cycle.
Years later, it returned. I was surprised and frustrated. How could this be happening again? I went through the same process of climbing out, only for it to come back yet again. This cycle repeated over decades until I finally understood that depression wasn’t something that disappeared for good. It comes and goes, and that’s okay.
Accepting this truth was liberating. Life events like deaths or illnesses often triggered its return. Recognizing this pattern was crucial. It’s like maintaining your mental health, much like brushing your teeth or dealing with a cold. It might not prevent every episode, but it helps you manage and live with it.
Counseling became a vital part of my routine. It gave me tools to recognize the early signs of slipping back into depression and strategies to cope when it did happen. Alongside counseling, lifestyle changes made a significant impact. Establishing a daily routine gave me structure and a sense of purpose. Simple routines like regular sleep patterns, healthy eating, and exercise made a significant difference.
One of the biggest shifts came when I decided to quit my toxic job. That job had been a constant source of stress and negativity. Leaving it behind opened up space for positivity and growth. Financial stability also played a significant role in alleviating stress and anxiety. Not being in destitute poverty provided a sense of security, reducing a major source of stress that could trigger depressive episodes.
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I filled my days with activities that kept me busy in a healthy way. I realized that it’s not about making depression go away entirely but finding better ways to manage it. Visualization techniques, like seeing my emotions as an incoming tide and letting them flow around me instead of fighting them, became incredibly beneficial. Accepting the presence of these emotions and understanding why they’re there, without letting them overpower me, helped me cope more effectively.
Another significant realization was understanding and preventing burnout. Discovering I was autistic and taking steps to prevent burnout made a huge difference. Limiting stressors and understanding my limits helped me manage depression more effectively.
Cutting out toxic people from my life was a game-changer. Negativity from others can drag you down, but once you remove that influence, things can start to look up.
Managing depression is a multifaceted process. It’s about understanding the cyclical nature of the condition, making significant lifestyle changes, seeking counseling, and cutting out negative influences. With these strategies, you can learn to live with depression, enjoy the good times, and cope more effectively during the bad. Remember, it’s okay to have bad days?—?it’s part of the journey, and you’re not alone.