Figure Out What Your Success Looks Like
Eric Lopkin
Leadership Development & Performance Coach for High Performers. President of The Modern Observer Group. Podcast host, International Best Selling Author, and Speaker.
Success isn’t one-size-fits-all. What works for someone else won’t necessarily work for you. If you’re chasing someone else’s dream, you’re setting yourself up for frustration and burnout. Instead, take control of the wheel, get laser-focused, and define success on your terms. Here’s how to make it happen. ?
Get Crystal Clear On What You Want
If you don’t know where you’re going, you’ll wander aimlessly. Sit down, block out distractions, and ask yourself: ?
The clearer you are, the easier it becomes to stay focused. Remember, vague goals lead to vague results. Define your targets so clearly that they’re undeniable. ?
Stop Comparing And Start Owning
Scrolling through social media or comparing your life to someone else’s is a waste of energy. Their success isn’t your success. You don’t need their life; you need your life, but bigger, better, and fully aligned with your potential. Own your journey, and don’t apologize for going after what’s important to you. ?
Set Ambitious, No-Excuses Goals
If your goals don’t stretch you, they’re not big enough. Push beyond what feels comfortable. Create goals that make you think, “Can I do this?” Then, back them up with massive action. A goal without a plan is just a wish, and wishes won’t get you anywhere. ?
Measure Progress, Not Perfection
Success is about progress, not perfection. Track your wins every single day, no matter how small they seem. Each step forward is a step closer to the life you’re building. Celebrate those wins, but never get complacent. Growth comes from constantly reaching for the next level. ?
Stay Obsessed With Improvement
The second you stop improving, you start declining. Always ask yourself: ?
Stay in learning mode. Read books, find mentors, and seek out opportunities to level up. Growth isn’t optional—it’s mandatory. ?
Embrace Failure As A Stepping Stone
Fear of failure is what holds most people back. Here’s the truth: failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s part of it. Every failure teaches you what doesn’t work and gets you closer to what does. Fail fast, fail forward, and keep moving. ?
Define Success In Every Area Of Your Life?
Don’t limit success to just money or career. Define what success looks like in your relationships, health, personal growth, and happiness. True success is about living a balanced, fulfilling life where every piece of the puzzle fits together. ?
Commit To The Grind?
Success isn’t handed out like candy on Halloween. It’s earned through relentless effort, discipline, and the willingness to do what others won’t. Get up early. Stay up late. Work when others rest. The grind is what separates the average from the unstoppable. ?
Defining success for yourself is the first step to creating the life you want. Don’t wait for permission. Don’t wait for the “right time.” The time is now. Take action, stay focused, and keep driving toward your vision with everything you’ve got. ?
Remember, success isn’t a destination—it’s a way of life. Make it yours. See how a Modern Observer Group coach can boost your business and personal success. ?Schedule a call here?or contact us at the information below. Modern Observer Group programs are based on the Businetiks system as detailed in the book, “The Businetiks Way.”
President at CT River Valley Chamber of Commerce
1 个月That was the question swirling around today at our ReadyCT @eclac meeting Chris A. said it best quoting a student in the program “I want to be successful” this comment furtherd a discussion on what does YOUR success mean!? Adam Ney Nailah Abdul-Rahman, M. Ed.
SolutionHer ?? Founder | Career & Business Strategist | Empowering Women Executives & Entrepreneurs to Succeed & Scale
1 个月Kudos, Eric! I love all of this! There's nothing like authenticity! Best to you as you help others find and leverage their authentic self!