Fertility in the Workplace - Your Roadmap Forward.
Louise Siwicki
Life Coach/ Fertility Coach & Workplace Advocate/ Fertility Educator/ Hypnotherapy/ Head of Country Development @ The European Fertility Society
Infertility is a silent challenge that many face, often in isolation. It’s a deeply personal and emotional journey, yet it is rarely talked about openly, especially in the workplace. As someone who has personally experienced this rollercoaster, I know how devastating it can be to feel unsupported and misunderstood at work when you are navigating the ups and downs of fertility treatments. It is not just about the physical strain; it’s about the emotional toll it takes on a person’s sense of well-being, productivity, and engagement.
For years, fertility was a taboo topic in my workplace. I vividly remember feeling like I was living two separate lives—one where I was the dedicated, hardworking professional, and another where I was struggling in silence with the crushing weight of fertility challenges. I was terrified of how my colleagues and managers might perceive me if they knew the full extent of my situation. It wasn't just about the fear of stigma; it was about the fear of vulnerability in an environment that didn’t seem prepared to handle such sensitive conversations.
During my own fertility journey, there were moments when I felt like giving up—not just on becoming a mother, but on my career as well. The lack of understanding and support in the workplace amplified my feelings of anxiety and isolation. I remember hitting rock bottom, thinking I had to choose between my career and my dream of having a child. But it doesn’t have to be this way, not for anyone.
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The Power of Opening Up the Conversation
Creating a more supportive workplace for those on a fertility journey does not have to be complicated or costly. In fact, it starts with something as simple as opening up the conversation. Hosting an Infertility Awareness Day, week, or month can be a powerful first step. It brings visibility to the issue, encourages empathy, and normalizes the discussion. But it doesn’t have to stop there. A single webinar can make a profound difference.
Last month, I hosted a lunch and learn webinar for an organization that wanted to take the first step towards addressing fertility challenges in their workplace. The session was simple, just one hour of discussing the realities of fertility journeys, the emotional impact, and the importance of creating a psychologically safe environment. What happened next was beyond what anyone expected.
Employees started coming forward, thanking the company for opening up this space. They felt seen, heard, and understood for the first time. They felt safe enough to approach their managers or HR to share what was going on in their lives. Two of these individuals were actually on the verge of leaving the organization because they didn’t feel supported. Yet, after that one webinar, they decided to stay. As a result, the company retained four good employees who might have otherwise left. This is the power of starting the conversation.
The Roadmap Forward: Simple, Effective Steps
So, what does the roadmap to a more inclusive and supportive workplace look like? It is simpler than you might think. Here are some steps that any organization can take:
1. Host an Infertility Awareness Day, Week, or Month: This is a fantastic way to start bringing awareness to the issue and showing employees that their challenges are recognized and taken seriously.
2. Organize Webinars or Lunch and Learns: These sessions can be incredibly cost-effective and powerful. They provide a platform for employees to learn, share, and support one another. One webinar can change the culture and make employees feel safer.
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3. Create a Safe Space for Dialogue: Encourage managers and HR to foster an environment where employees feel safe discussing their fertility journey without fear of stigma or career repercussions.
4. Provide Access to Resources: Whether it's through counseling, flexible working arrangements, or simply providing information, small steps can significantly impact employees going through fertility challenges.
5. Train Managers and HR: Educating leaders on the impact of fertility challenges can help them better support their teams, improving morale and productivity.
How My Services Can Help You Take the First Step
The roadmap forward is not as daunting or complicated as it might seem. You don’t have to overhaul your entire policy or invest heavily to make a meaningful impact. It starts with small, simple, and cost-effective steps—like the ones mentioned above. And this is where my expertise comes in.
As an Executive Fertility Coach and Workplace Advocate, I specialize in guiding organizations to take these initial steps. Through tailored webinars, workshops, and training sessions, I help businesses create a culture of openness, understanding, and support for employees navigating fertility challenges. My services are designed to be practical and actionable, offering immediate value without the need for significant investment.
One webinar, one lunch and learn, one open conversation—it’s all it takes to begin shifting the narrative and creating a workplace where everyone feels safe, valued, and supported. Imagine the impact of retaining talented employees who feel psychologically safe and appreciated. Imagine the boost in morale, engagement, and loyalty.
The solution is simpler than you think. It's not about creating new policies; it's about fostering the right culture. Let’s work together to make fertility a topic we don’t shy away from and create workplaces where every story is heard, and every journey is respected.
If you’re ready to take the first step and see real, positive change in your workplace, reach out. Together, we can create a supportive environment that retains talent, boosts morale, and transforms lives.
Have a wonderful week ahead!
Louise