Females. Stop competing with the male. There is no competition. The female’s role is to support the male

Females.??Stop competing with the male.?There is no competition

The female’s role is to support the male

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And this is nothing whatsoever to do with gender

Now, what do I mean?

Marriage in the bible is not about the marriage of the man and the women.??It is about the male and female energies working together.?Becoming one.?Being in alignment.

?Your conscious mind is only about 2% of what you see, hear and think.?The rest (98%) is unconscious – what we refer to as subconscious.?And this is what keeps us alive, without us even having to think about it.??What is breathing you now???What is digesting your food and beating your heart?

It is the role of the conscious mind to make decisions, and impress the subconscious mind so that it carries out those decisions.?But what happens is, we use our conscious mind to “make” everything happen and so this is why we are exhausted, from overthinking and controlling all the variables.??Its an impossible job and so when you are not, things can fall apart.

?This is where the male and female energies come in.??The conscious mind is the male energy.?Directive.??And the female energy is in the subconscious.?Accepting and allowing.??Nothing whatsoever to do with being a man or a woman.?This is in all of us.

?If you identify as a man man, then you probably find you are strong in the conscious mind which is the ego.?You want to protect and provide.?And you drive for results.??A strong woman can be this as well, as she is driving from the male energy within her.??

?If you identify as a feminine woman, then you will want to support your man.??As so a man, who may be playing more to his female energy to support his more male assertive partner.

I grew up with 2 brothers and it was an insult to be thought of as a girl.??If I was girlie at all, then my brother would say to be to stop being such a girl.??So I became the tom boy.?And this played out in my life and relationships.?It wasn’t until I met Wolfgang, who wanted to be the protector, that I started to enjoy being a female.?And be more in the supportive role.??It didn’t mean to say, I wasn’t successful in my own right, but that I was no longer competing with my male energy or with man, and totally backed up his idea, which actually fed into my own vision of who I wanted to be and the life I wanted to have.??We are in synergy.?We are working as one.??I enjoy having the doors opened for me.?I enjoy him being a man and me being a woman.??I love these roles.??It is harmonious.

Behind every truly successful man, is a powerful woman.??You see the power resides in the female energy.?This is true power.???Sorry male energy – you are the director.?That’s the end of your role.?It is the female energy that is the creative force which manages all the variables.

The first shall be last and the last shall be first.??If we “try” to be powerful, that is ego.??If we just allow and accept, that is true power.??I am not saying, lie down and die!??Absolutely not.??I am saying, reclaim your power.?The power that you are.??Both men and women, no matter what you identify as.?You are made up of these energies.??And the more in sync they are, the more peaceful and easy your life will be.?In every area.

?So in todays world, I see women being so masculine but yet they are the feminine desperate to just be.??If as a woman, you step into your power, you can have the position at the top if you want.??But you will get it by the feminine energy, not the male.??Do not do as the males.?They are good at that.?We are good at the feminine.??It holds the power of change.?For if we continue to do the work in the male energy, then we are just regurgitating the past.?Like a rubix cube.?It looks like its solved, but then it gets messed up again and we are still using the same pieces to “fix” the same problems which just look different.?The energy never actually changed.????

Do not do as the world does or has done.?It has become too masculine.?There is a balance.?And guess what, its 2% male energy and 98% female energy.?Again, nothing at all to do with identifying as a man or woman.??

So you see, there really is no competition. The female is the power behind the male decision. Use this for relationships and for your own internal power struggle - you know which one I mean, the internal fight you have with yourself. Get the balance, and allow the energies to be in sync

On a personal note......Decide what you want, hand it over to the subconscious, and allow it to do its job

In a relationship...... Who natually falls into the role of directive and supportive? Both of you can be successful but not competing with eachother when you understand the balance of energies.

And its not to say, its 100% all the time like this because sometimes we switch roles, and thats okay. Different situations may call for different responses. Just be aware where the true power resides. Within you.

Get the balance right. 2% directive 98% accepting/allowing

Its all in your programming.

?If this is resonating with you and you don’t know how to manouver yourself or relationship, then reach out to me .

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Sheena Cantar