Feeling Stuck, Overwhelmed, and Dissatisfied? Five Strategies to Take Charge of Your Life!
Leila Singh
Leadership & Career Development & Mindset Coach to High-Performing, Mid to Senior-Level Tech Industry Professionals - helping them to secure their next Promotion & Step into Leadership | Keynote & TEDx Speaker
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?Featured Article: Feeling Stuck, Overwhelmed, and Dissatisfied? Five Strategies to Take Charge of Your Life!
?mi-brand Hub: "What are you going to do to stand out, make a lasting impression & be remembered for the right reasons?
?Featured Podcast: Shaina Banerjee - How this Teen Entrepreneur went from a small idea a couple years ago…to securing funding and a successful product launch!
?Ways to Work With Me
?Further Resources to Support Your Career Growth Journey
?Take a sneak peek into our upcoming newsletter content.
Feeling Stuck, Overwhelmed, and Dissatisfied? Five Strategies to Take Charge of Your Life!
Do you find yourself feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or dissatisfied in one or more areas of your life?
Whether it’s your career, relationships, finances, health, or even your hobbies, these emotions can creep in, leaving you frustrated and unfulfilled. For many, especially those working in demanding industries like tech, these feelings might seem inevitable.
However, feeling this way doesn’t have to be your norm, nor does it need to define your future: You can take control, make changes, and experience a renewed sense of purpose, balance, and joy.
??Why Feeling Stuck is a Sign for Change
As Albert Einstein famously said, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.” If you are dissatisfied with your current situation — be it professionally or personally — it’s an indication that something needs to change.
The first step is acknowledging that continuing the same patterns will only bring more of the same results. But don’t despair. This realisation is empowering because it gives you the opportunity to pivot, to create new habits and ways of thinking that lead to positive change.
??1. Focus on What You Can Control
A key strategy in moving from stuck to empowered is focusing on what you can control. Often, we get bogged down by factors outside of our control, whether it’s the state of the economy, workplace politics, or the behaviors of others. It’s easy to get caught in the cycle of blame — blaming a manager for not recognizing your efforts, or circumstances for preventing you from achieving your goals.
But here’s the reality: Focusing on external factors only drains your energy. Instead, shift your focus to what you can influence. Ask yourself, “What can I do to change my situation?” For example, if you’re not getting the promotion you want, could you seek feedback to improve your skills or find ways to increase your visibility at work? When you take ownership of your actions and mindset, you regain control of your narrative.
??2. Reframe Your Focus: Shift from Negativity to Positivity
The stories we tell ourselves have a powerful impact on how we feel. If you constantly focus on what’s going wrong, you will feel trapped by your own negativity. One practice that can help reframe your mindset is gratitude. It’s easy to overlook the small victories in life, but those are what can build momentum towards larger successes. Research has shown that practicing gratitude daily can rewire your brain to focus more on the positive aspects of your life.
For example, instead of dwelling on your frustration over missing out on a job opportunity, be grateful for the skills you’ve developed in the process and the new connections you’ve made. These small mindset shifts can be the spark that turns feelings of dissatisfaction into motivation.
??3. Embrace the Challenge of Change
Change can be daunting, but it’s necessary for growth. Whether it’s seeking out new career opportunities, having difficult conversations at work, or even taking up a neglected hobby, embracing change means stepping out of your comfort zone. A large part of feeling stuck comes from resisting change, even when we know it’s what we need most.
So how do you move past the fear? Start by identifying what small, manageable steps you can take today. If you’re feeling unfulfilled in your job, for instance, you don’t need to quit tomorrow. But you can start exploring other options, whether it’s networking with peers or upskilling yourself in areas that interest you. Each step forward, no matter how small, is a step toward the change you desire.
??4. Recognize the Impact of Judgments — Your Own and Others
A significant source of dissatisfaction for many professionals stems from judgments — both self-imposed and external. We often hold ourselves to unrealistic standards, comparing our journey to that of others. This comparison trap can make us feel inadequate or unworthy, even when we’re performing well.
Moreover, we may allow the judgments of others to dictate our self-worth. Learning to distinguish between constructive feedback and harmful criticism is crucial. At the same time, be mindful of how you judge others. If you find yourself being overly critical of colleagues, it might be a reflection of how you’re feeling about yourself. Release the need to compare, and focus instead on your own unique path and growth.
??5. Build a Circle of Support and Mentorship
Surrounding yourself with people who uplift and inspire you is key to breaking free from feelings of stagnation. Whether it’s a mentor, coach, or a supportive peer group, having advocates in your corner can help you see new perspectives and encourage you to take bold steps forward. These individuals can provide the feedback, encouragement, and accountability you need to stay on track and navigate your challenges.
If you feel stuck in your career, for instance, it’s worth considering whether you have strong relationships with mentors or advocates who can guide and support your growth. A mentor can help you explore new ways to overcome barriers and even open doors to opportunities you didn’t know were available.
??Taking the First Step Toward a More Fulfilling Life
At the core of overcoming feelings of being stuck, overwhelmed, or dissatisfied is a willingness to change. The first step is to commit to doing something differently — whether that’s changing your focus, embracing a new mindset, or seeking support from others.
It’s easy to continue along the same path, but remember: If you want different results, you must make different choices.
Ask yourself: What is one thing I can do today to start creating the life and career I truly want?
Take that first step, and you’ll find that each subsequent step becomes easier. As you continue to make progress, you’ll move from feeling stuck to feeling energized, empowered, and in control.
What are you going to do to stand out, make a lasting impression & be remembered for the right reasons?
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Have you ever noticed how we tend to gravitate towards people with confidence?
This is particularly true within the office environment and in professional situations, where maybe we don’t know the person on a personal level, yet we want to stop and listen to what they have to say.
Of course, this does not happen with everyone and maybe you look at these confident individuals and think, ‘What is it about them that makes them stand out?’
In comparison, you may find yourself feeling invisible, unheard, and overlooked.
I personally felt that way at the very beginning of my career and many of my clients feel the same now.
Everything changed for me, when I started to really work on my mindset, my presence and how I positioned myself and my [in-person] personal brand within the corporate world.
It took a lot of time, effort, and energy; I stepped out of my comfort zone repeatedly, yet when I did, the results were incredible, and the course of my career evolved entirely!
This is currently what I help my clients with, and I truly believe that if you want to become that confident individual people gravitate towards, stop and listen to, it’s time to create a strong in-person, personal brand.
What are you going to do to stand out, make a lasting impression and be remembered for the right reasons?
And if you are seeking a new role, perhaps your job is at risk, or you are simply feeling stuck in your career, not knowing how to move forward, then I invite you to check out my recent podcast episodes filled with incredible value, sharing strategies and ideas for your career planning and growth journey, whilst taking a pro-active approach!
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