Feel the love inside the pain in your heart

When you think of someone in your dreams or your mind you may experience some heart pains or feelings to that partial person, this could be someone who has left you, or someone you loved no matter who you will have to fight the pain, then push away this problem by trying your hardest to forget about then and move on wards from it. That yes mite seem difficult but if you can't stand the pain it mite be the only way. Thanks young ones till the next one.

Those we let come close to us leave an imprint on our souls. When you think on him you are bringing past feelings and memories to the surface, and this does have an effect on our physical bodies, because the body is linked with the mind. I’d say it’s a perfectly “normal” phenomenon. Believe me, scars never truly, fully heal, but it’s the scars we endure that shapes us into the people we become, and strength is granted to us by those experiences to either help others or lift ourselves up to greater heights… as long as we don’t look back and linger on our wounds or what could have been; that’s paralyzing.

Preventing an experience that has had a profound effect on your life is a pointless endeavor; it has already happened. I don’t know the exact nature of what has happened between you and this friend of yours… but if you want to overcome your past hurt you need to accept it and use it to fuel positive avenues of your life. Put simply, moving forward is your best remedy, not ignoring the aftermath of your heart, but realizing your experience has changed you for a greater purpose that you can forge on your own terms. Never let anyone or anything dictate who you are or how you should feel. Be strong, and live for better days.

My belief is that when you build such close bond to a person you may have a sense of guilt deep down because when you care about someone they develop a special place in our heart and when we think of them and they are not with us we think back to a time when you were together and how good it felt. So you feel a sense of guilt and loss of a good thing because of the feelings that built up over the time. We may feel a loss or guilt because we want to go back to that happy time when we were together. If possible try to imagine who ever you miss is doing great wherever they are and it will give you a sense of warmth and comfort.

It isn't normal because you won't get this felling for everyone one. When you close to someone either a friend or a girlfriend/ boyfriend you spend lot of memorable moments which don't let you forget them. And when you remember it and them that they are not with you which tends to hurt.. Prevent I don't think so there's any prevention of it. Just keep yourself busy that's the possible way.

It’s like there’s a lump somewhere in your heart, weighing you down. The closer you are to the person you hurt, the heavier it gets. True, it depends on the character of the said someone as there are people who can hurt others easily, but I personally believe human have compassion in their heart. No matter how stone cold your heart is, hurting someone bounds to hurt you back all the same. The bad news is, if you let it be, it’ll going to haunt you for years and years.

Hurting someone isn’t a good thing to do, for you and for the one you hurt, no matter how ‘big’ and ‘small’. And if you did it, accidentally or not, I suggest you to apologize right away and free yourself from the pain. When you care for someone truly, you become vulnerable. The only people that can hurt you are the ones you truly care about. The only people that can hurt you are the ones you truly love unconditionally. Only that cuts deep. In the end all we remember will be the silence of our friends, not the words of our enemies.

That’s the point. We all get hurt when it is from the ones we truly care about and love. All other emotional hurt, we tend to shrug it off and move on. It really hurts only when it comes from those who mean a lot to you. It works the other way as well. We all hurt the ones we truly care about and love. Because the same applies to them too. They care about us, they become vulnerable. They do really care. Love doesn’t hurt. Expectations, possessiveness, insecurity, jealousy and emotions do.

Memories don't hurt. Love doesn't hurt. It is the attachment that hurts. It is the expectation that hurts. It is the imagined future that is now broken that hurts. Unrequited love hurts the most. You will love someone no matter what they have done to you and that someone may not love you back no matter what you do. That hurts. Those expectations hurt. To love is always selfless and that feeling is always unconditional. Love is always unconditional. It may sting seeing her/him with someone else, but you will be happy for him/her for their happiness is more important to you when you truly love them.

When we lose someone that we love so truly and they walk out of your life for some reason, it hurts. This doesn't mean memories will haunt us. It is the collapsed future that hurts us. Living in the past with the ones we love brings us tears, not because that is lost, but because there was something that could have been forever, but it isn't now. That hurts. That stings and we tend to associate it with good memories. Sometimes we love people more than the memories they gave us. We fall for the person, not just for the memories. We love, we live life to create beautiful memories for us and for the loved ones around us.

Expectations hurt in proportion to the emotional investment. Whenever we are too much attached to someone or something, we grow attachment and that attachment leads to expectations. These expectations when fulfilled is an awesome experience. But when we are too much emotionally invested and when those dreams aren't coming true, it stings and hurts and kills from within. Getting over it is by forgiving and moving on with life accepting that you will never get over that true love. Forgiveness is your trait. It solely depends on you and not on the other person. You want to forgive them because you want peace of mind and don't want to hold grudges against anyone in your life. Forgive because you have a strong heart. Forgive because you are strong. Cheers!