Fearless Authenticity: Embracing My Unique Perspective

Fearless Authenticity: Embracing My Unique Perspective

In life, fear often leads individuals to compromise their authenticity. The desire to fit in, avoid judgment, and find a sense of belonging can sometimes cloud our ability to express our true beliefs. This journey is a personal one, and today, I'd like to share my experience of overcoming these fears and embracing authenticity.

Discovering My Unique Perspective

I've come to understand that I possess a distinct viewpoint on various matters, often deviating from what society deems "politically correct." Past experiences have made me aware of moments when I held questions and concerns within me, but I surrendered my authenticity to conform to societal norms in fear of isolation.

A Courageous Childhood Memory

One vivid childhood memory stands out. It was a time when I stayed with my beloved grandmother. I was known as the quiet, humble, and well-liked one among the family. But there was a challenge – my grandmother's consistent preparation of palm oil soup. Deep down, I yearned for variety, just as others did, but it seemed everyone was too apprehensive to voice their desires.

The Day I Spoke Up

Then, one day, I summoned the courage to speak my truth. I asked my grandmother, "Why do we have palm oil soup every day? When can we have groundnut soup for a change?" My grandmother fell silent, and the very next day, our meals changed. Since then, my aunts and cousins affectionately dubbed me "Every Day Palm Oil." Surprisingly, they later admitted that they, too, had longed for variety but were afraid to voice their preferences. I became the voice for our collective desires.

An Ongoing Reminder

Whenever I find myself straying from authenticity, I harken back to that moment from my childhood and ask myself, "What would that younger 'Kofi' do in this situation?" This story serves as a perpetual reminder to stay true to myself and not let fear or the need to conform smother my authenticity.

The Transformative Journey

In conclusion, my voyage of conquering fear and embracing authenticity has been transformational. The tale of my childhood, where I discovered the courage to speak my truth, stands as a constant reminder that being true to oneself can bring about positive change, not only for an individual but for an entire group. It reinforces the idea that authenticity and honesty should be cherished and pursued, even when it challenges societal norms.

Drawing inspiration from my past, I navigate life with the conviction that being "Every Day Palm Oil" means having the courage to speak up, stand for what I believe in, and encourage others to do the same.

#FearlessAuthenticity #BeYourself #SpeakYourTruth

Written by Emmanuel Akrong, Fintech ABC, Growth Mindset and Fitness and Health Advocate