Fear in Sales: How to Overcome Quota Pressure, Job Loss & Turn Failure Into Fuel

Fear in Sales: How to Turn It Into Your Greatest Strength

Sir Sean Connery, one of my favorite actors, once said in First Knight:

"A man who fears nothing is a man who loves nothing. And if you love nothing, what joy is there in your life?"

That quote has always stuck with me. Fear is an ever-present force in sales and in life. It’s the fear of missing quota, the fear of losing a job, the fear of failure. These fears are real. They aren’t just numbers on a spreadsheet; they carry weight. They impact our ability to provide for our families, protect our reputations, and maintain momentum in our careers.

Recently, I ran a poll across my 300,000+ followers on social media and asked: What is the most profound fear in sales?

• ?? 51% said missing quota and bad performance
• ?? 30% said losing their job

These fears never truly disappear. If you’re in sales long enough, you will face them. I’ve been there myself—more than once. And let me tell you, in those moments, fear can feel crushing. But what you do with that fear? That’s what defines your future.

When I Hit Rock Bottom

I missed quota once. It was brutal. My top customer was reassigned while I was on paternity leave. My biggest deal was miscalculated and never corrected. The result? My first negative appraisal ever.

It was a gut punch, but in hindsight, it was a crucible—I became a student of what worked and became obsessed with mastering the role. Soon after, I got a new manager who was incredible. I adapted. I studied the system, doubled down on relationship-building, and applied ruthless discipline to my schedule. That year of failure? It was the launchpad for a multi-year streak of winning every award I could in that company and 6 promotions.

I've twice lost my job.

The people I thought would help me? Nowhere to be found. I applied to over 1,600 jobs. I got a handful of interviews. The experience was humiliating, deflating, and absolutely brutal.

But I learned two game-changing lessons:

1. Your network is your net worth. I had no network then—but I built one. And from that moment on, every meaningful job I’ve landed has been because of relationships.
2. Your personal brand matters. I reached out to over 900 publishers before landing my first book deal. That book became a key part of my resume, setting me apart from other candidates.

Each failure laid the foundation for future success.

How to Turn Fear Into Fuel

?? Fear is always around, but it doesn’t have to control you. Here’s what I learned from these experiences:

?? Nothing—good or bad—lasts forever. That awful moment of failure? It will pass. And on the other side, something better is waiting.

?? Your network is everything. When things go south, who is in your corner? Double down on relationships before you need them.

?? Discipline and focus are non-negotiable. Distractions won’t save you when you miss your number. Stick to the actions that drive results.

?? Fear can be fuel. It’s pesky, it’s distracting, but it can also be powerful—if you channel it correctly. Fear sharpens your focus. It forces you to be resourceful. It pushes you to be better.

?? Sales is about value and relationships. When you consistently show up, add value, and genuinely care about the people you serve, fear loses its grip. Because you know, deep down, that your effort matters.

Fear Never Disappears—But You Can Master It

We fear losing what we have, letting people down, not being good enough. But the truth is, if you focus on relationships, leverage every resource at your disposal, and commit to serving others, you will never regret the effort you put in.

Your career won’t look exactly like you planned.

But if you keep showing up, keep learning, and keep pushing through, you’ll build something truly great—something you can be proud of.

So, what will you do with your fear? Will it paralyze you—or will you use it to fuel your next breakthrough?

Fear in sales is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to define you.

By embracing challenges, leveraging relationships, and staying relentlessly focused on what truly matters, you can turn fear into fuel for growth.

Every setback is a setup for a comeback—if you choose to learn, adapt, and push forward.

Stay disciplined, build your network, and show up with value every single day.

Success isn’t about avoiding failure; it’s about rising stronger every time.

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