Fear is a Liar: Build Your Dream Team and Crush Your Goals

?? Is This You?

Leading with creativity is a demanding dance. You navigate responsibilities, conquer challenges, and yearn to unleash innovation. But amidst the whirlwind, do you ever feel a hollowness where fulfillment should be? Have you ever sacrificed your dreams to align with organizational needs??

The more professional burdens you carry, the more crucial it becomes to plan for health, relationships, and personal growth. Professional weight demands intentional living for sustainable success.

The Benefits of Planning

Researchers at Positive Psychology reveal that being intentional and investing in personal planning is empowering. It triggers new behaviors and builds momentum, propelling us towards a more fulfilling life. It’s a secret weapon to unlock your full potential. Its benefits include:

• Increased Motivation: You're naturally more driven and engaged with clear goals. You wake up with a purposeful fire in your belly, knowing what you want to achieve. That's the power of planning.?
• Improved Decision-making: With your priorities defined, you can confidently make decisions, knowing they align with your bigger vision. Planning cuts through those moments when information overload paralyzes your choices.?
• Increased Productivity: Planning helps you ruthlessly prioritize, eliminate distractions, and maximize your time.
• Discover Clarity: By setting personal goals, you align your focus and gain a clear understanding of your desired direction. Planning acts as your map to feeling lost in the tech jungle.?
• Soul Satisfaction: Planning helps you break down your goals into manageable steps, each a victory on your path. As you tick them off, you'll feel a surge of accomplishment and a renewed sense of purpose.
• Improved Self-esteem: Reaching your goals is a powerful confidence booster. With each milestone, you'll see your capabilities and potential unfold, leading to a more positive outlook on yourself and your work.

Essential Planning Questions

The best part of personal planning happens when you commit to experiences you may have yet to give yourself permission for - until now! So ask yourself:

What are you committed to changing this year across your life pillars?

• Health (physical, spiritual, mental, emotional, personal growth)
• Wealth (your work, side hustles, investments, inheritance)
• Relationships (family, friends, romance, your network)
• Dreams (Something you wish for and hope to achieve someday)

What will stop you from making each pillar of your life more satisfying??

Fear is a survival instinct associated with something that happened to you in the past or something you did that you later regret. When your memory of the event is triggered, you feel fear. Don't let fear hold you back.

Fear is the stuff that can feel very heavy and impossible to pull yourself out from under, but it's not who you are. Are you letting old fears keep you hostage from moving you forward to a more satisfying life?

Who will support you in making your commitment to your plan a reality?

Every company has a board of directors for guidance and support. So why shouldn't you? Forget the isolation. Find individuals with diverse experiences and perspectives ready to offer unique wisdom when needed. Imagine:

• A financial guru is helping you navigate smart investments and achieve financial security.
• A career coach supporting you in expanding your creativity, power, and influence
• A wellness coach guiding you towards a healthier, more vibrant you.
• A relationship expert offering insightful advice on cultivating meaningful connections.
• A dream champion who inspires and empowers you to chase your wildest aspirations.

With their collective knowledge and support, you can make informed decisions based on diverse viewpoints, not just your echo chamber. They can help you gain fresh perspectives and swiftly overcome challenges. This isn't just about advice but building a support system. So, ditch the solo journey and start assembling your dream team. Your future self will thank you.

How will you feel satisfied with each part of your life??

Satisfaction is about feeling a deep sense of fulfillment in your life. What moments have genuinely made your heart sing? Please think about those experiences. What made them so special? How can you weave more threads of joy into your daily life?

What becomes possible now that you have this in your life?

This question invites you to dream and visualize a new future for yourself. You can access it by remembering the childhood fantasies that danced in your head. What about them still resonates? What whispers are you ignoring?

Daring to dream is like striking a match to the kindling of potential inside you. It ignites a fire, not just of fleeting wishes but deep-seated desires and aspirations. Your dreams are the embers that fuel your passion, purpose and drive.?

By honoring this part of your life, who have you become??

A decisive shift occurs when you delve deep and intentionally align each aspect of your life. You elevate your game professionally and personally.

Transformation starts from within, and people see you shine in a new light. While this attention can be positive, it's more than just validation. It unlocks untapped opportunities, presenting exciting challenges that propel you further on your growth journey.

Embrace the discomfort, for it is in uncharted territories that you discover unexpected depths within yourself and truly blossom as a leader.

?? The Short Of It

Imagine your life where happiness isn't fleeting but a thriving garden you cultivate daily. That's the power of investing small, consistent efforts in a plan that holds you accountable across all aspects of your life.?

Reward yourself for choosing a life that fuels your soul, not just your to-do list. Celebrate each milestone, which signifies your readiness to set even more ambitious goals.?

And remember, even the most vibrant gardens encounter occasional storms. If your plans falter, keep discouragement from taking root. Take a mindful break, reassess your goals with fresh eyes, and return to your plan with renewed focus.?

That’s it for this week!

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With ?? from Sally