Fear Factors
Are you more likely to be paralyzed by worry or indecision?
I wanted to delve deeper into a topic that I discussed in my last post - the paralyzing effects of what is known as "existential angst". This theory suggests that the relentless pursuit of meaning in life can be hindered by an overwhelming abundance of unanswerable questions. Ultimately, it is rooted in our profound fear of death.
However, for the sake of practicality, let us transition from the philosophical realm to the more tangible aspects of this issue. The fear of uncertainty can be incredibly daunting, as it tends to flood our minds with thoughts of what could potentially happen. Our survival instincts often lead us to fixate on potential threats, which can, in turn, paralyze us with fear and worry. Trust me, I have experienced this myself on numerous occasions. It can be quite overwhelming.
On the other hand, the concept of unlimited possibilities can be equally overwhelming. It opens up a vast array of choices, which can be both grand and fantastic. However, when we attempt to fixate on each and every possibility, we often find ourselves paralyzed by indecision.
Such limiting thoughts, lead to limiting beliefs, and lead to limiting behaviors that, when left unmanaged, render us ineffective. Most of us encounter these two fears intermittently throughout our day-to-day lives. However, if I were to ask you to choose one, which fear do you find yourself most susceptible to? Is it the fear of uncertainty or the fear of unlimited possibilities?
I’m genuinely interested. I’ll share mine in a future post. (Unless, of course, something awful happens and I’m either in a coma or kidnapped.)
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1 年Hi Rick Gibson. Interesting post. I find that many people articulate endless possible futures for themselves. As I read your note, this can be a self imposed prison of uncertainty. An approach to consider is to think long term with several short term waypoints to get there. Several incremental points of reference that get me to that new future. I can see Point A and once arrived, Point B comes into view and Point C etc. Without the incremental steps, I see people pursuing opportunity in 360 degrees. Not to mention vertical dimensions. Unfortunately, they often never fully realize one of them and remain paralyzed in the analysis of what is best for their futures. They have given themselves too many choices or options to consider then focus down on a few that are a important passion, achievable and worthy of pursuit. Always enjoy and learn from your posts. Thank you!