Fear: Breaking Free from What Holds You Back

Fear: Breaking Free from What Holds You Back

"Both faith and fear demand that you believe in something you cannot see. You get to choose." - Bob Proctor

In the labyrinth of human consciousness, two powerful forces compete for control of our destiny: fear and faith. As a neuroscientist recently noted, our brains process approximately 11 million bits of information every second, yet our conscious mind can only handle about 50 bits. This gap creates a breeding ground for both our greatest fears and our most profound opportunities for growth.

The Neuroscience of Fear: Understanding Your Mind's Guardian

Your amygdala, often called the fear center of the brain, processes emotional responses in mere milliseconds—far faster than your rational prefrontal cortex can analyze the situation. This evolutionary advantage kept our ancestors alive, but in today's world, it often holds us back from our greatest potential.

Here's what's fascinating: Research shows that 85% of what we fear never happens, and of the 15% that does occur, 79% of people discover they can handle the difficulty better than they anticipated. Yet we remain chained to our fears, letting them dictate our choices and limit our dreams.

The Invisible Prison: Why We Stay Comfortable

"Everything you've ever wanted is sitting on the other side of fear." - George Addair

Your brain creates neural pathways—habits of thought and behavior—that become increasingly difficult to break. This is why staying in your comfort zone feels safe, even when it's holding you back from growth. But here's the crucial truth: neuroplasticity—your brain's ability to form new neural connections—continues throughout your life. You're never too old or too set in your ways to change.

The Choice Point

When faced with a challenge, you have a critical choice to make in the first 6 seconds:

  1. React : Automatic Driven by past programming. Keeps you playing small. Maintains the status quo.
  2. Respond: Aligned with your goals. Promotes growth. Creates new possibilities.

Breaking Through: The Science of Transformation

Recent studies in neurobiological research reveal something remarkable: When we consciously choose to face our fears, our brain releases a cocktail of neurochemicals that actually strengthen our resilience. Each time you step outside your comfort zone, you're not just facing a fear—you're literally rewiring your brain for courage.

The Hidden Truth About Success Fear

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson

Sometimes, what masquerades as fear of failure is actually fear of success. This paradox occurs because success demands transformation, and transformation requires leaving the known for the unknown.

Signs you might be afraid of success:

  • Procrastinating on important projects
  • Sabotaging relationships or opportunities
  • Making excuses for not taking action
  • Staying "busy" without making real progress

Your Call to Action

"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase." - Martin Luther King Jr.

Today, I challenge you to:

  1. Identify one fear that's holding you back
  2. Take one small action toward facing it
  3. Document your experience
  4. Decide how you will grow from this awareness

Remember: Fear is not your enemy—it's a signpost pointing toward your growth edge.

Every time you feel afraid, you're being invited to expand, to evolve, to become more of who you're meant to be.


?? Want to discuss your personal journey with fear and growth? Send me a message. Let's explore how you can transform your fears into stepping stones toward your fulfilled life.

Remember: While fear demands belief in potential harm, faith invites belief in potential growth. The choice, as always, is yours.

To your continued growth and success,

Gitzy

Ravi S.

General Manager- Tulsa Marriott Southern Hills & Ruffin Event Center | Servant Leadership. Passionate in developing future industry leaders. Professionally grateful, Personally content & cautiously optimistic in life.

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Useful tips - the fear of the fear is the worst to overcome !! Thank you Gitzy Loder for your amazing weekly topics that are so important and inspiring ??

Leidy Anderson, MBA, CTPRP

Third-Party Risk Management - at Western Alliance Bank

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Thank you for the challenge! I never saw fear as the opposite of faith and after reading your article I think that's the case, a decision point, a fork....

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