Family Ties, Spring Cleaning & New Names

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??Aha! Moment

In this week's "Aha!" moment, I want to share a light-hearted yet profound realization about the little habits that connect us to our families. It all started with a playful argument with my husband about how we hold hands. Given how often I adjust my grip, he teasingly accused me of "moving hands" instead of holding hands. It was a funny moment that I brushed off until later, riding to a baseball game with my parents. Not long after we settled into the car, my dad reached out to hold my mom's hand, and almost immediately, she implored, "Stop moving your hand!" That's when it clicked—I got this hand-holding style from my dad!

This humorous revelation brought a smile to my face and a chuckle at the thought of this tiny, inherited trait. It's a reminder of how our quirks and mannerisms often come from our parents, tying us to our family history in the most endearing ways. These small actions, like how we hold hands, might be the family's signature move! So, the next time you find yourself doing something just like a parent, maybe laugh a little and think of it as a personal family trademark—they're not just habits; they're our inheritance!

1??One Thing I...

?? Learned—After taking over cleaning duties while our wonderful cleaner was on maternity leave, I was reminded of just how demanding household chores can be. Diving into the task reacquainted me with the physical effort, the time commitment, and the seemingly endless nature of cleaning—just when you think you're done, there's always more to do! However, the satisfaction of a freshly cleaned house is gratifying, reinforcing the value of hard work and a clean living space.

?? Read - This week, I learned about a controversial decision by Oakland officials to rename their airport to San Francisco Bay Oakland International Airport. This change has sparked a heated debate with San Francisco, which accuses Oakland of trying to confuse travelers, given the proximity of the two cities and their airports. The name change aims to boost visitor traffic by leveraging the San Francisco Bay Area's recognition. However, it's causing significant friction, including threats of legal action from San Francisco's City Attorney. This situation underscores the complex dynamics of local branding and the impact of geographic descriptors in travel and commerce.

?? Watched - I watched Tony Robbins' "Questions to Change Your Life," which focuses on three transformative questions: What will you focus on? What does this mean for you? What are you going to do to change? Robbins explains that our focus determines our feelings, the meaning we assign to events shapes our emotions, and our decisions to change pave the way for new opportunities. This enlightening session emphasized how intentional questioning can steer our emotional and professional lives toward significant improvements.

?? Accomplished - This week was particularly fulfilling as I assisted my clients through various challenges. We tackled some tough situations, streamlined processes through automation, and initiated the search for a perfect location for a retreat. These achievements highlight the diverse nature of entrepreneurship and the importance of adaptability and innovation in business. Seeing tangible results from efforts to enhance business operations and client satisfaction is always gratifying.

??Insight for the Week

Families are like branches on a tree. We grow in different directions, yet our roots remain one. ~ Unknown

?Ask Kristen

Thanks to everyone who sent in questions. This one came from the state of Washington!

Q: I noticed you've recently started a role with HelmsBriscoe. Could you tell me more about what you're doing there and how it could benefit someone planning an event?

A: Thank you for your interest! Joining HelmsBriscoe has been an exciting step for me, especially coming from the unique position of being a client myself. This firsthand experience has given me a deep appreciation for the exceptional level of service and value HelmsBriscoe provides, which I now have the pleasure of extending to others.

With HelmsBriscoe, I assist clients with finding the perfect venues for their events, leveraging HelmsBriscoe's vast partnerships and the expertise of its associates worldwide. I will thoroughly research the client's options and negotiate the contract to ensure their needs—from budget considerations to specific event requirements—are met.

Whether it's a corporate meeting, an educational conference, a special celebration, or a coaching retreat, my goal is to make the site selection process as smooth and stress-free as possible for our clients. If you're looking to hold any event—a business meeting, an incentive trip, or a coaching retreat—I would love to share more with you about how I can assist. And remember, my services come at zero cost to you. HelmsBriscoe's compensation comes from the venues and vendors we work with, not our clients, which allows me to focus solely on your needs and interests.

Having been in your shoes as a client, I understand the challenges and intricacies of event planning, and I'm here to bring that insight and ease to your event planning experience. Please feel free to reach out if you want to discuss your next event!

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