Fall in love with someone who has same meaning of love as yours

The real love is when you want her to be happy, even if it is not with you. Love is when you are ready to let go, even if you want her. Love is when you love her even more for all her flaws. Love is when all you want to do is hug her and tell her you're sorry, to end the argument, so she will smile. Love is when her dreams become your goals. Love is when you will do anything for her, just to see her happy. Love is when you can be selfless for her.

Actually there is no definition for love. It is different from person to person. it causes pain to a few and happiness to others. Sometimes it may last for eternity. You will know the perfect definition of love for you when you feel it. Lot of people in today’s world live with the distorted definitions of Love and hence end up with sufferings. If what is love is clearly understood, then it turns the Life into a wonderful Life.

And love is a sweet emotion generated within oneself. The generation, mind nod, heart blood pumping, release of hormones and experience of love-all from generation to destruction of love happens within! All the surrounding persons/things can be stimulators to it only but can never be generators. Some try to fuel it, some try to destroy it. Even the stimulation can be done within if one brings his “Love” to his consciousness (by the way, this doesn’t mean love yourself).

However the real problem with the people now is that they mistake “Stimulators” as “Generators” and run after them. For some people, a person stimulates it so they run after him, for some people money stimulates it so they run after it, for some people some materials stimulate it, so they run after them and for some other people things like status, prestige and all stimulate it and they run after them. Anything and everything in this world can be stimulator for love.

People start loving what stimulates their already existing “Love”. When people have some stimulators which can not fuel their “Love” anymore, they look for another/other stimulators. This running is never ending process. When their stimulators got disturbed by anything or anyone, that’s where the problem starts-sufferings! My question is when the whole generation of love is within yourself, why are you so craved of finding love outside in some person, material, money, things and all? There is no love in them indeed, the whole love is within yourself!

The only thing is you didn’t unlock it fully so far. It is unlocking sometimes, locking some other time-all randomly and accidentally because your “Love” is not in your consciousness. When you can generate your “Love” independent of anything, would you ever think of searching it somewhere in the world? Would you ever think of harming others or hurting yourself for love? Would you do all the non-sense?

And how to bring “Love” to consciousness? It is actually so simple. Just take charge of your body, mind & emotions-You can generate your “Love” all the time and you can enhance it too without any outside stimulation. This doesn’t mean you cut down all your contacts in the world-but it simply means, your “Love” doesn’t change just because a person changes, just because time changes and just because some situations change.

The whole world may seem to change, but your love remains the same-not because for the world but for your own sweetness within yourself. Because, you are the taster of that sweetness. A flower blossoms whether it is in your yard, whether it is in your garden or whether it is in a dense jungle. Not for somebody, not for the world, but because such blossoming adds value and meaning to its Life only.

Of course, don’t ever segregate the love into again types-parents love, siblings love, friends love, lover’s love and all. Don’t complicate it with more words. Whatever the love may be, it is essentially a sweet feeling within yourself. Only the outside expression may vary depending on the type of relationship. This comes from the discretionary power of human being.

If at all your Life becomes an expression of the “Love” within yourself, your Life will be wonderful. But if your Life depends on squeezing love out of other persons, things and all-sufferings are inevitable. If your love comes to your consciousness, you will become a sensible human being. And with the sense and discretion, not only you know how to carry absolute love but also you will know where to express your love, how much of love to be expressed, in which way to express your love depending on the need, situation, type of relationship and all. This way, you will live well and let others live well. You will be called then as a “Lovable”and be happy with that. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit