Failure is an Option!
It’s sad to think of all the dreams that never became a reality due to the most insidious of fears — the fear of failure.
Chances not taken.
Questions unanswered.
Potential left unfulfilled.
Relationships never formed.
It’s not only sad…it’s downright tragic.
Most people live by the belief that “failure is not an option.” It’s the way we’re raised. It’s how we are conditioned to think from a young age. If you raise your hand and give the wrong answer…you have failed. If you ask a “dumb” question…you have failed. If you didn’t come in first place…you have failed. No wonder we’re so afraid of failure. We’ve been raised to believe that if we haven’t succeeded; we’ve failed. We’re lead to believe that it’s a binary option: you have succeeded or you have failed. And if you have failed, then you should feel bad about it.
So we grow into adulthood dragging behind us the burden of fear of failure. We live limited lives because we are afraid to take a chance.
Afraid that we might fail.
Fear of failure often manifests itself as perfectionism. We wait until the conditions are “perfect” before we start. In most cases, we never end up starting, because the conditions are never perfect. Perfectionism is just a dressed up form of procrastination. And procrastination is a symptom of fear of failure.
In her book “Mindset”, the psychologist Carol Dweck talks of “fixed” and “growth” mindsets. Those with a fixed mindset see their lives through the lens of limitation while those with growth mindsets see their lives in terms of the potential they have. Fear of failure breeds a fixed mindset. It forces us into a life of limitations.
I’m here to propose a different way of thinking about failure. A perspective that will transition you from someone who fears failure to someone who actively seeks it out.
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Failure is an option!
It’s not only an option, it’s something we should embrace and actively seek out.
Why should we embrace failure?
Even after you understand the reasons why failing is something you should embrace, it’s still hard to move past your fear of failure.
Here’s 3 ways you can start pushing through that fear and realize the benefits of failing.
If you’ve been holding back on trying something because you fear you may fail, I’m giving you permission to take a chance.
Failure is an option. As a matter of fact, it’s a great option. It’s the only option if you want to succeed.
So…
Get out there and fail spectacularly!
Learning and Change Leader | Transforming People, Process, and Technology
2 年Michael, well said! I needed this reminder during my job transition period. Thank you!