Failing Forward: Transforming Mistakes Into Milestones

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The Irish poet and writer James Joyce said, “Mistakes are the portals of discovery.” I absolutely love that saying because it shifts our perspective on mistakes.?

Instead of getting wrapped up in the negativity of being wrong, not being perfect, or feeling embarrassed (all belittling on the LeadingME? Ladder of Leadership- see below), we can view mistakes as opportunities for discovery and growth.

Reflecting on our past mistakes, we often find that what seemed catastrophic at the time led us to where we are today. But what does failing mean, and what can you do to turn mistakes into milestones?

What Does Failing Really Mean?

Failing means different things to different people. For some, it can be a small setback; for others, it might feel like a huge disaster. Tony Robbins’s book Unlimited Power helped me understand this deeply.?

I used to have a massive inner critic that constantly told me I wasn’t good enough and that everything had to be perfect. This drove me to achieve great things, but it also caused immense stress and self-doubt.

So Why Do We Focus on Failure Instead of Results??

It’s all about conditioning. From a young age, we are conditioned by our parents, teachers, friends, and society to fear failure. We are taught that mistakes are bad and that we should avoid them at all costs.?

Our doubts often arise from the well-intentioned comments and actions of others, who typically mean no harm and act out of a desire to protect us. For instance, when someone tells us, “Don’t do that, it won’t work. I’ll find a better way for you,” they’re trying to shield us from failure.?

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