EXPLORING DIMENSIONS FOR BUILDING LOVE!
Nousheen Rasheed
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Love in itself is one of the most intriguing happening and it has fascinated humans throughout history and times. It’s been debated long enough as to how and what ways can be used to keep relationships going or how divorce rates can be brought down or break ups can be overcome. Still we don’t see much improvement in the way people are forming relations around the world.
If we go through the average relationship cycle it goes like;
One meets people ======> strikes a chord with someone, either it’s a first time connection or after a good amount of knowing someone ====> people get into a relation =====> they explore each other in depth (the flaws and the other good attributes) =====> the relation thrives or it dies out!!!
Now looking at this cycle I find the part of striking the chord most amazing and the most striking as to no one has been able to actually find a scientific reason about how or why two people get attracted to each other! I mean you see hundreds of people in a lifetime but it’s very rare to be so attracted to someone that you seriously feel like falling for them (Okay excluding those desperate emotions that we fall for every time a good looking face comes along because there are many OMG moments but OMG Seriously someone like that exists is kind of a once in a life time moment!!!)
So my debate is to keep alive that once in a life time moment and I would like to research on this further. This write up I’d like to use as a beginning exercise for exploring people’s ideas and reviews on that. My question to those who have been able to keep their chemistry alive is…..how many times has it been that moment which led them to feel good about their partners and do they feel keeping it alive in their minds has had an effect on the longevity of their relationship?? Likewise the people you forgot; did you still remember the wow factor of the person you had or was it that you had forgotten it when you broke away?
Looking forward to hearing everyone’s opinions out there!
Sales Executive
9 年Vry well said N.R
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9 年Rightly said! When people get together the are altogether focused on the positivity of the partners but with time this approach fades away which leads to development negative mental images of one another thus damaging relations. We need to teach people about focusing on the positive traits of each other like in friendships!!!
Sr. Manager Distribution @ Global Pharmaceuticals | MBA, Pharma
9 年Starting looking at the good side will definitely miscue the darker side which can be very painful..........Love is unconditional it happens or it doesn't happen........and when it happen it always absorbs the darker shades no mater how worst that is.....
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9 年My idea is its more science....only if we start looking at the good side of people more often :)
A Certified English/Urdu Translator & Transcriptionist.
9 年The Love starts when the frequencies of Minds & Hearts of 2 humans beings matched...........Love has many dimensions within itself..........