Exploring the All-round Benefits of Gratitude to our Well-being
Uno Okon, CISM, CISSP, P.Eng
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Welcome to the second article in the Gratitude Adventure series, where we will explore the all-around benefit of gratitude to our well-being.
Let us start by reflecting on the profound words of thought leaders on the subject of gratitude. In his book Gratitude Works! renowned gratitude researcher Robert Emmons asserts that “Gratitude is like fertilizer for the mind, spreading connections and improving its function in nearly every realm of experience.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer, influential German Lutheran pastor, and anti-Nazi dissident, said, “It is only with gratitude that life becomes rich.” There is something powerful about gratitude that allows us to flourish and promotes our productivity.
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PROFOUND BENEFITS OF GRATITUDE FOR INDIVIDUAL WELL-BEING
According to the Center for Disease Control (CDC), “At a minimum, well-being includes the presence of positive emotions and moods (e.g., contentment, happiness), the absence of negative emotions (e.g., depression, anxiety), satisfaction with life, fulfillment, and positive functioning.” Well-being is characterized by good mental health, high life satisfaction, a sense of meaning or purpose, and the ability to manage stress. Well-being is multidimensional, with a scope that covers our physical, spiritual, emotional, psychological, social, economic, and more.?
Well-being requires a balance across all dimensions of life. Physical fitness has a huge appeal and has evolved into an industry of its own. However, physical fitness by itself is not sufficient to attain well-being. In a controlled study that compared a group of employed adults who thrived in multiple dimensions of well-being with another group of employed adults that thrived only in physical well-being; it was observed that the adults with rounded well-being performed better in terms of workplace productivity, engaged better at work, and experienced higher workplace satisfaction. Despite the proven benefit of rounded well-being that goes beyond the physical and cut across social, emotional, economic, and spiritual well-being, it is sad to see a significant number of people in society who struggle to attain rounded well-being. This struggle hurts performance at work, learning productivity at school, and family relationships at home. The beauty of gratitude is that it promotes well-being across multiple dimensions of life. Now, let us take a closer look at how gratitude positively impacts different dimensions of well-being.
Physical Well-Being
This is a dimension of well-being that includes making a habit of healthy behavior, such as proper nutrition, adequate exercise and abstaining from harmful habits. In The Science of Gratitude, a whitepaper prepared by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley, it was shown that gratitude can promote physical health in the following ways, to mention only a few:
Emotional Well-Being
This compromises the presence of positive emotions and moods in life. Emotions such as contentment, happiness, optimism, self-esteem, self-acceptance, self-realization, and more. Emotional well-being is crucial because it contributes to our overall feelings of life satisfaction and enlarges our social capacity to form healthy relationships. Still gleaning from the impressive review of studies in the whitepaper titled “The Science of Gratitude,” gratitude promotes our emotional well-being in the following ways:
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Psychological Well-being
In a Forbes article on the scientifically proven benefits of gratitude, Amy Morin points out that gratitude not only reduces stress but it also plays a major role in overcoming trauma. The article references studies that found “Vietnam War veterans with higher levels of gratitude experienced lower rates of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD),” and also reveals that “gratitude was a major contributor to resilience following the terrorist attacks on September 11.”
Evidence shows that gratitude can help with recovery from harmful addictions. Studies reviewed in the whitepaper provide encouraging evidence that found:
Social Well-being
Gratitude is a gateway to an ever-expanding world of relationships. A grateful person rarely travels alone through the journey of life. Gratitude has a way of attracting positive relationships into our lives. The wise words of the Chinese philosopher Confucius buttress this point. “Virtue is never left to stand alone. He who has it will have neighbors.” From my personal life experience, I can confirm and confidently assert that he who has gratitude will attract helpers; he who has gratitude will enjoy the favor of people, and he who has gratitude will be esteemed in the eyes of both God and people.
The positive ramifications of gratitude on our relationships cannot be overemphasized. Gratitude expressed through thanksgiving, and thankful gestures can cause a new acquaintance to seek a deeper and continuing relationship. Acknowledging other people’s contributions opens their hearts toward you and unlocks new opportunities for you. Two key ways in which gratitude strengthens our social bonds and relationships are:
From the foregoing, The beauty of gratitude is that it promotes well-being across multiple dimensions of life. When you add the benefit of gratitude to spiritual well-being (something I leave for another article), it takes the positive effect on our well-being to a whole new level.
In conclusion, gratitude is pregnant with many blessings and will do you great good.
To learn more about gratitude, take a look at Uno Okon's new book?Relentless Gratitude .?Also, visit?www.relentlessgratitude.org
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2 年Gratitude: An essential attitude for a thriving & flourishing life! Thanks a lot for the release of this awesome piece!.