Excuses will always be there for you

How many times have you reacted to someone " Yes, but wish I had some time for this". It is interesting to see how our subconscious mind comes up with an excuse every time, and it is not ready to take responsibility. Some of the common excuses we always use are like, - I have got more work at the office, and no one is co-operating in my Team, or - I don’t get time due to my travel in this traffic, even - My boss can’t understand anything, and I have a tough time to deal with him, and - My spouse doesn’t understand the importance of money also - My parents don’t agree and more - I don’t have sufficient education background or - I don’t have the necessary experience and - I didn’t get time as I had to attend a few functions

Many of you and many of the people who give any of the above excuse or similar excuses for anything in life? This indicates you are limiting yourself which is utter nonsense and unethical. I know, this statement might be harsh, but we can do a small experiment to understand the value of your excuses. You should not miss any excuse or problem in your life.

Once you are satisfied that you have listed all your excuses and problems, fold the paper sheet and visit the nearest supermarket or a provision store. Buy only one Lemon and try to give the paper sheet which contains your excuses and problems instead of cash or card. Do you think cashier or store person will accept your paper sheet which has a big list of excuses and problems

Have you landed yourself into the habit of being an excuse master? Can you tell us why you started to make the excuses in the first place can have a lot of different reasons. But because you did it often, you made a habit out of it. Your mind is searching for excuses in auto-mode, maybe even when you don’t need to make excuses. I recognize this with my good friend.

Whenever I say something that I know he didn’t/did do, he answers with an excuse, even when he didn’t have to excuse himself. It just happens in auto-mode. For me it would be hard to give you an answer that could help you with your excuse making. But if it is really a ingrained habit. Have you recently read the powerful book The Power Of Habit written by Charles Duhigg? It will help you understand habits more, and help you change yours for sure.

"Decide if you really want it then you’ll find the way, otherwise you’ll find a good excuse" have you been reading such quotes recently? In simple words, if you decide something and you’ll end up with the creative excuse by yourself then trust me you wasn't really want it. Lack of commitment and motivation leads to procrastination and eventually you find an excuse to not complete the task given to you! To do any particular work we just need to find one motivation strong enough for you that you need to complete that task, no matter what happens, and you will do it without any excuse.

It's not excuse it's a way to make yourself paralyze in all working of life you will be caught in pleasing thinking. You will do only activity you find. It would be interesting to read some good autobiography of great people and some motivational books to get rid this excuse or keep some clear goal in life so as to succeed with a clear motive and no more excuses. Stay blessed ! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit