Excuse Me, Leadership: It's Time to Break Free and Rise! Beyond the B.S of Boundary Setting.
It's not about the "how-to" knowledge, is it? It's about something much deeper—self-awareness and prioritising our own well-being.
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Today, we're diving deep into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: setting boundaries and avoiding burnout.
Now, we all know the basics, right?
But here's the catch: it's not about the "how-to" knowledge.
It's about something much deeper—self-awareness and prioritising our own well-being.
Let me share a recent eye-opening experience I had with a client that perfectly illustrates this point.
Trust me, it's time to take a step back, reflect, and embrace a more balanced and fulfilling leadership journey.
The Case of the Senior Marketing Manager:
Last week, I met a senior marketing manager, let's call her Lilly. Now, Lilly seemed to have it all figured out when we discussed setting boundaries and taking time to pause and reflect.
She proudly declared, "I do all this!
I go on holidays and have clear boundaries for my team, only reachable for emergencies, you know?"
Impressed, I commended her efforts and then delved deeper into what was truly bothering her.
The Tiredness Paradox:
To my surprise, Lilly confessed, "Well, I'm so tired at the moment... I have no energy."
Ah, the classic tiredness dilemma.
You see, we often find ourselves in this peculiar situation.
We know what we need to do, just like a doctor prescribes a treatment, but somehow, we miss the mark.
We lack the self-awareness to identify the areas where we truly need to reinforce our boundaries.
The Importance of Self-Awareness:
Leadership isn't just about following a playbook.
It's about understanding ourselves—the good, the bad, and the exhausted.
Without self-awareness, we're like a ship adrift, pushed around by the currents of work demands and expectations.
We keep pushing and pushing, oblivious to the signs of burnout creeping up on us.
Reclaiming Control and Reenergising:
So, how do we break free from this cycle?
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It starts with a commitment to self-awareness. Take a moment to check in with yourself.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, constantly fatigued, or lacking the motivation you once had?
These are clear indicators that something's off.
By recognising these signs, you can start reclaiming control over your well-being.
Reinforcing Boundaries and Prioritising Well-Being:
It's time to be proactive, my friends!
Identify areas where you need to reinforce your boundaries.
Are you saying "yes" to every request, even if it leaves you stretched thin?
Learn to say "no" when necessary and communicate your needs effectively.
Remember, self-care isn't selfish; it's essential for sustainable leadership.
Believing in Yourself Again:
As we embark on this journey of self-awareness and prioritisation, something magical happens.
We start to believe in ourselves again.
We realise that success isn't solely defined by how much we sacrifice or how exhausted we appear.
It's about leading with purpose, balance, and a renewed sense of energy.
Dare to Rise Up & Lead...
Be decisive and make a choice right now—no procrastination. You've been delaying this decision for far too long.
Will you settle for mediocrity, playing small, or will you be courageous and step up?
There will always be countless reasons why you can't or shouldn't, but if you have that burning fire within you, it's time to let it loose.
Otherwise, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
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