Exception or Expectation
Sangita Sarkar
"National Lead Talent Acquisition | HR Strategist | Transformational Leader | Certified Life Coach | Expert in Social Media Recruitment & Employer Branding | Champion of Excellence and Integrity in HR"
Hii friends,
What is expectation ? A process, where the heart, goes out from rationality and moves around in a world of fantasy, thus deciding self that everything will go by my wish, my way, and whatever I think of .
Its tough to sacrifice expectation, but I think it is the most complicated output of human emotion. We don't expect, we don't complicate, as per me .
Lets take a couple's situation nowadays, all issues are based on the following :
"Why you didn't remember?", I" Is it may fault, that this went wrong?", "Why you didn't get that thing for me ?", " Why did you forget my birthday/anniversary?" etc etc. It is not a written statement , or an eternally declared rule that whatever I do , I remember, whatever and whoever I feel important and give importance- should come back to me with equal vigor.
The scale of demotivation, fluctuates because of expectation. Whenever,what ever we expect do not happen we start blaming fate, luck , importance, attention and what not, including the ever and unforeseen circumstances , and obviously THE PERSON who is involved.
The time when we feel, to be happy, its only that you be happy without any conditions . That happiness would land you to positive atmosphere around you . Our motto should be self happiness first,and then spread happiness. Friends, if we are not happy in ourselves, we cannot claim to make others' happy . And, similarly their happiness is not in our hands- we can be a reason to make others' happy, but not promote it wholly. Thus, for me , when you can limit your expectations you can be an EXCEPTION.
Need to have views from all who reads this post .
Regards
Sangita
"National Lead Talent Acquisition | HR Strategist | Transformational Leader | Certified Life Coach | Expert in Social Media Recruitment & Employer Branding | Champion of Excellence and Integrity in HR"
9 å¹´Thanks Sudeep, its your line of thoughts but I do think individuals have a control on their expectations
Manager Store Operation
9 å¹´your thought is correct. But as what u have said as "exception" ...its those people who knew or knows the art of controlling one own mind. Only great hermits had those power. We all are general n behave like wise.
Assistant Manager at Secure Print Solutions Pvt. Ltd.
9 å¹´Great
Senior HR & Operations Leader | Building High-Impact Teams Through Strategic Digital Transformation | Scaling Organizations via Data-Driven HR Strategies | Elevating Business Growth Through People Excellence
9 年Of course, as you said if we didn’t expect we can be happy. But in real scenario, this context is typical to follow. This thought may be nurtured from our childhood. We are grown up from childhood by saying if we achieve that we can get something so on.., Remove “Expectation†from your mind, then everything will be happier in life. Nice rejuvenating thought. Cheers!!!!
Company Owner @ Pardesi Group | CEO, National Sales Manager
9 å¹´Great Post