Everything is a Mess
"Give yourself credit," I said to my friend. "Everything around you is a mess."
"That's not very nice, John," they said.
"It's not about?you,"?I said. "It's about?everything. Everything is a mess."
Abby Covert defines a mess as "any situation where something is confusing or full of difficulty." Taken in this light, one might see that just about everything is a mess.
And what's interesting about messes is they're stable over time. This means that despite evolution, time, technology, innovation (you name it), the same messes continue to appear over and over.
Examples of Messes
We talk about this in my university course, Design Thinking in Education. My students are school principals, higher education administrators, journalists, engineers, and aspiring entrepreneurs who range in age from 22 to 60. Using Covert's book, How to Make Sense of Any Mess, for inspiration, we go around the room answering the following question:
What are some messes you can identify in your life in these four categories, and what makes them a mess?
Here are some messes. Recognize any?
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Several things make these a mess
What Are Your Messes?
If messes are stable over time, and they'll continue to exist, what can you do? Sweeping them away is not an option. But mitigating them is. While you don't have as much control over the messes created by others, you can have some control over messes in your domain. The first step is identifying the mess you're facing. Covert (2014) recommends working through these questions (p.25):
Draw Your Mess
In my class, we?draw our messes. Drawing your mess can be pretty therapeutic.?Vanessa Baker?is a teacher. She drew her mess.
When Vanessa drew her mess she could see all the pieces that were invisible before. She discovered how things were connected, and which connections were strong or weak. And she was able to take in the scale; the mess is big. But seeing it's parts made it more approachable.
(By the way, parents out there: if you have ever signed a permission slip for your child to go on a field trip, this should give you pause and a renewed respect for teachers. Planning and carrying out a field trip is non-trivial. It's a mess).
In Brief
Everything around you is a mess, and that's OK. Identifying, acknowledging, and mapping a mess you are dealing with is a healthy step toward finding your own psychological safety within the mess. It can also give you insight into entry points within the mess. You may not find a complete answer to the mess, but you will have better questions to ask about it.
Freeing! Verbally and visually you’ve given a pathway to acknowledge and explore the real human situation, imperfection. Turning our “interior stoplight” from red to yellow to green: awesome!
Founder and Principal at Gilbert + Chittenden
2 年This is a great read, glad I'm making my way to it now. You really have me wondering why am I (we?) so afraid of messes? Is it about lack of control over a mess? Or because messes are unpredictable? Or am I afraid that others will think my mess is the messiest of all? I love the framing of embracing the mess and finding safety within it rather than trying to untangle it all. Thanks John!
PhD | Executive Director of Online Learning & Course Production, Digital Learning at UT
3 年Love this - so applicable, especially in 2022. And thank you/Vanessa for including the drawing. Very helpful to see it as an example. I don't know where I read or learned of this, but one helpful approach I learned related to complexity theory was that sometimes you just need to make the choice that "suffices." I've found this helpful when having to make choices/leadership decisions in the middle of complexity (maybe even after writing it all out) when there is no clear "best answer."
Edu Leadership coach, School transformation specialist, Meeting scientist, Theatre guide and Storyteller
3 年I liked the idea of drawing (writing) the mess. Writing, itself I think, begins to free cognitive space to deal with mess. One of my research interests is work meetings and why they are necessary to manage/clarify or sometimes produce 'messes'. Would be helpful to dig into Covert to see if there are analytical insights that could be applied to meeting episodes.
Great article--love the idea of drawing the mess??