EVERYONE IS ABLE

?????????????????????????????????? ??Most of us don’t believe in ourselves. We esteem others more than we esteem ourselves. By doing that we suppress ourselves and never get to where we are supposed. When you see someone as more important than you three things happen. You respect, hate, or fear the one you feel is important. Today I am deriving my encouragement from the book of Ephesians 4:7 KJV, “But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it. However,?he has given each one of us a special gift through the generosity of Christ.” Having in mind that everyone has the grace that belongs to him only, I bring to your attention something called unique. Everyone is unique and there is no copy cut of another you in this universe. This is the beginning of time to the end no one will ever be like you a hundred percent. Having that in mind makes the most important man in this universe right now. I know that I am irreplaceable. This means there is one thing that I and only I can do in this universe.

Self-esteem is what leads to our self-evaluation and definition. It is knowing the value you possess and what that value can do for you. I start by accepting your body image, and self-image and being self-aware. With such you love yourself the way you are and start working out on things that can add value to you. It may be doing exercise to stay healthy, acquiring skills to compete, nurturing talent to become a professional skill, and working on your moral ethics like controlling your anger. When you gain your self-respect and view yourself first as people view you, then you are ready to go.

I don’t know if you have come across a book called The Secret. This book talks about the laws of visualization, vibration, and attraction. It did not make sense to me at once until I understood it after experimenting with it. If you have never come across this book, I know at least you know something small about the law of attraction. I am respected everywhere I go. Sometimes I am afraid to accept some offers because they are higher than me. This is because I love myself more than anything in this world. Not even my mother or to-be wife or children can I love them as I love myself. I am selfish. It is me first and then the second person. I was born alone and I will die alone. From this, you can imagine how I am proud of myself. Self-respect above all and self-discipline. Watching every step, I make. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you have, you can’t be more important to me than I am. I measure my value in my understanding not what the world tells me. I don’t measure my value in terms of my education, money, job, tribe, talent, race or whatever. My value is complex and no one can fully understand it. It’s dynamic hence it’s time and chance that determines it all.

With such a mindset my mind vibrates at a great frequency and thus it attracts similar minds in the universe making me a very important person. Wherever I go the frequency is turned to greatness. If a group of people was attacked by a lion the lion picks the most afraid. This is because of its instincts and it senses the heartbeat of the afraid one. If an animal can have an excellent power like that what about humans? I don’t demand respect but I get it naturally because I am respected. Just from this simple illustration, I hope you understand why some people are successful while some are not. I you don’t value and respect yourself where will success go after you get it?

Back to my topic, I am encouraging everyone who thinks that he is a no one. A no exists in your mind and as long as it exists there you will be a no one. Everyone will see you as a no one. Self-motivation is what keeps that small fire burning in you. Believe in yourself through patience. Invest in your time. Teach your mind to understand that even after thirty years you will be able to achieve your dream. I always encourage and remind myself that am only on this for less than a hundred years. When I had nothing, I used to tell myself don’t worry one day I shall overcome poverty. Even if I don’t become wealthy, I will die one day and my poverty will be gone. My mind doesn’t anything as a failure. I regard my failure as a permutation. If you expect to succeed in a short time, you won’t make it. Success needs time that is why I am telling you to advise your mind to invest in time.

Grace as explained well biblically, it means being able to do the will of God. God has given each one of us a portion of grace to do his will. For example, if God has proposed for you to be a leader, he will give you grace to be a leader, same to a teacher and to a policeman and to a surveyor. That is why the competition should not be seen amongst ourselves. Why compete when we have different graces? Don’t compare yourself with others because you are not others. Have seen a country being run by two presidents? Do you see any star competing with the Sun? And do you see the sun competing with the moon to shine at night? The moment you understand your value and true self such things melt away and most of the time you mind your own business. We are billions on earth right now Why do you want to indulge in my affairs when you have yours? Success is a choice. Respect other people and give them space to do their stuff putting in your mind that they too have grace.

Above all, all these that I am talking about can only make sense and be true if you believe in Christ. Did I not read the word of God from the holy bible? That word becomes relevant if you can believe in it. This is because after doing all of these there are invisible powers that too play a part in our lives. Some call it luck, some call it fate, and some destiny. Without a spiritual being to oversee your things, your life may be tampered with. Do you not hear of immature deaths, someone framing another for the murder case, and someone stealing another person’s destiny? Or do you think they are just fairy tales? Wait until you encounter it yourself and you will understand that the spiritual realm has the power to manipulate the physical events in the physical realm. Love God with your all heart and believe in Him forever. 1st John 1:8-9 KJV, “If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.?If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us.”