An everlasting building that will never fall apart

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In conclusion - which is better, the tree of knowledge or the tree of life, a snake or the Shechinah?

As we know, forty days before the birth creation Bat Kol comes out and says, Bat so-and-so to so-and-so.?If so, a match made in heaven!?Therefore, in a deep layer of the soul, in the essence of the soul, spouses - two halves of the same soul - are already connected and united even before they got married, therefore the desire to love and be loved exists in them.

It is true that King Solomon in the Song of Songs taught us: "I have sworn to you, daughters of Jerusalem, what shall you arouse and what shall you arouse love until it desires", and hence love has its own will, and its own rhythm, and it progresses and develops gradually like a tree that develops from a seed.?Indeed, in the essence of the soul there is the nucleus of love, there is the attachment to the partner.?However, we are tasked with the work that requires effort and investment to help the tree of love grow until the stem, stems, leaves, flowers and fruits bloom in it.?Until there is a fancy and beautiful tree!?Everything depends on us!

In contrast to eating from the tree of knowledge from which Adam and Eve learned the instinct of lust in general and in married life in particular - an instinct that inflates the ego and interferes with healthy communication - true love in the life of the couple is a taste of the tree of life and brings about a life of love and brotherhood and peace and evil forever, to an everlasting building.?And we must choose the tree of life.?And we have the power and ability to choose it.?After all, in every person, as in every living creature, all the sefirot are included, including the sefirot of the crown.?And in the crown count of the soul, in the unity of the soul, in the mysteries and depths of the soul, is the core of pure love, a love that is above taste and knowledge, a love that does not depend on anything.?A gift from heaven!?And it should challenge us to ascend spiritually, to love, rejoice and delight in the gift we received from above.?In the love that connects us to all the souls around us, but especially to the soul of our spouses.

Indeed, couples who already have an affinity between them from the beginning, feel a disadvantage before they have met, and because of that they need each other and try so hard to find each other, and after they meet, they must do everything to come to the recognition that our soul is only a part of a larger whole being, and be ready for a joint life journey , which builds the bond, the love and the home.?And especially after marriage, after making the covenant in the name and kingdom, to remember that "once we were one, and we will always remain one in our roots".

A mole on the couple after their marriage to hold each other strongly continuously.?And with healthy observation, one can slowly discover the hidden love that must be awakened at any time and at any hour, until the feeling that they can never be separated!?To feel love without Egypt, love that does not depend on anything - love for the essence, self-love, without anything to do with qualities and behaviors, because they are one!?This is how they were created and this is how they will remain forever.

Sometimes when the tree of knowledge enters between spouses, and introduces differences of opinion between them, the memory of the spouses blurs and they forget the internal connection that exists between them.?That is why one must stand guard and awaken the hidden natural love again and again, and bring the Holy One, blessed be He, into their lives, because love is the revelation of divine light.?Shekina among them!?There is love - there is Shekinah!?If so, "love" is like a synonym for "Shechina"!?cause and effect!?And as Rabbi Akiva says: "A man and a woman have won - She has placed them between them."?This is the task, the work and the great art of spouses to bring the Holy One, blessed be He, into their lives, by which they create an eternal triangle, and as it is said: "And the triangular thread will not quickly break!"?(Kohalath 4 12).

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