Enough or Not Enough?
Sandra Martinho
Author of The Dance of Life | Storytelling & Psychology: The Power of Narratives| Co-Founder & CEO at QuantumWorks - Consulting
Enough or Not Enough?
That’s the question! Last week I faced this question myself while at an event with wonderful successful heartwarming people.
Being enough is wonderful and this should be the feeling within us every single moment in time. When we believe we are enough, everything that happens is enough, and everything we do or feel is enough too. Being enough is fulfilling, being not enough feels empty.
When we are enough the world bends at our will. So why isn’t the world bending? Because somewhere deep inside… despite we believe and make this beautiful affirmation that we are enough… what sometimes we truly believe and vibrate for is… I am not enough! Enough or not enough might emerge from an external comparison of other people's success. When we allow this comparison to take place - the feeling that pops up is "I am not enough".
How do we shift from a vibration where we are not enough, where we judge ourselves for not being enough, to a vibration where we are enough? Where we are truthfully accepting our being! Where we feel and flow through life based on our essence! How can we make this happen?
To start, take these 3 key points and work with them as you please:
Start by "emptying the house”, all compartments of the house: bedrooms, kitchen, garage, the basement, the attic..., remove all of the old stuff that is accumulated on the corners, discard all remaining old furniture, and everything not in use. When everything is empty… start cleaning, rebuilding, and nurturing what is damaged, with kindness and love, and after... start refurbishing! This time we will refurbish with something new that matches our being. How wonderful this can be! Having a house matching our true being! What matches our true being? I wonder...
Now that the house is empty, cleaned, and taken care of, it's time to discover the new! Everything we want to bring inside matches us, we love it, also something that brings us peace. How do we do this? Remember, we must trust our gut when we go and choose the new furniture, and all we want inside our sanctuary home, in the end, is our house! We will be there every single day.
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The last is, to choose what we like, not what we might think it's trending now or what others might like when they come to visit. Trends come and go and friends come and go with time... Our true being remains intact... Surround ourselves with what pleases us, what makes us happy and loveable from within!
Using this recipe, I feel I am tailored to be ENOUGH! And while I am being enough, life is always enough.
Now that I am enough, the next step is:
Just start with baby steps, 1 choice at a time, 1 action at a time! Now and then, look inside the house and check if it is still clean, shiny, and bright... and if all matches with the path that you are undertaking! If not, STOP! Refocus! Adjust what needs to be adjusted and restart the journey again. Do this, as much as you need because... to be enough is a journey that starts within! And...
When I am enough... everything is enough !!!
See you around, and remember... I love you, no matter what!
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